One night stand/ MILF

[defcon]

I usually travel outstation and overtime visit the same places occasionally. I made friends with a few ladies bout my age which has resulted in a one night stand..njow the one night stand becomes part of my itenary on my trips

Its good friendship till the bed..no money no sugardaddy no xtra most of the girl just wan tot have a good time and that all

I came to know one of the girl I am bonking is married and got 2 kids and saperated formt he husband, both living under the same roof but saperate lives he got his gfren and she got hers and i am one of them.

I am kind of caught in a crossroad of weather to continue bonking her or try to patch her family up(they have resigned to live life like this) or am i wrong

[l3atu]

Originally Posted by defcon

I usually travel outstation and overtime visit the same places occasionally. I made friends with a few ladies bout my age which has resulted in a one night stand..njow the one night stand becomes part of my itenary on my trips

Its good friendship till the bed..no money no sugardaddy no xtra most of the girl just wan tot have a good time and that all

I came to know one of the girl I am bonking is married and got 2 kids and saperated formt he husband, both living under the same roof but saperate lives he got his gfren and she got hers and i am one of them.

I am kind of caught in a crossroad of weather to continue bonking her or try to patch her family up(they have resigned to live life like this) or am i wrong

I think you post in the wrong section....you should have post this thread in 'Adult Discussions'....

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by l3atu

I think you post in the wrong section....you should have post this thread in 'Adult Discussions'....

hanor, entered the wrong 'room'

[Blue_gal]

Originally Posted by defcon

I usually travel outstation and overtime visit the same places occasionally. I made friends with a few ladies bout my age which has resulted in a one night stand..njow the one night stand becomes part of my itenary on my trips

Its good friendship till the bed..no money no sugardaddy no xtra most of the girl just wan tot have a good time and that all

I came to know one of the girl I am bonking is married and got 2 kids and saperated formt he husband, both living under the same roof but saperate lives he got his gfren and she got hers and i am one of them.

I am kind of caught in a crossroad of weather to continue bonking her or try to patch her family up(they have resigned to live life like this) or am i wrong

"OPEN MARRIAGE" (Seperated does not meaning divorce) is wat it is called? Having husband and his gf living in the same roof? It Is kind of cruel for the KID's FEELING!!!!!...wat will they think abt their PARENT?? wanna XXX can go else where.....whY muSt be under the same roof? ....

U can not bonking her someONE else will STILL BONK HER.....sorrie to say tat they are SO SELFISH!!...this is how "problem" KIDS raise....

can't promise a life for them DUN LET THEM BE IN TO THIS WORLD!!

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BitCH Blue AUnTIE

Actually, I not sure if "Adult discussions about sex" is the correct section too given tat it is relationship/moral issue he is asking abt and nothing to do with sex...

Anyway, ordinarily, one would say u should certainly try to patch them together, but in your case, by bonking her, u also contributed to the problem.

Out of "friendship" as u say, u can certainly try, but remember that every family has its own book of troubles, just make sure that u don't try to bite off more than what u can chew. i.e. how much time do u spend there each time, how u know if the husband will listen to u or they are really suitable to be together, by creating false hope of them being happy back together, would u be causing them greater unhappiness later on?

A "morally right advise" would be to tell her to stop such ONS activities and focus on finding a good husband (may or may not be her current one) so that she can provide a better environment for her kids in future. By continously having sex with people who are not prepared for commitment, she is being very irresponsible as a mother of the kids.

[defcon]

Well there are 2 plates I am juggling frienship and sex...

To me friendship is more important then sex... I kind of tried talking to her about her life wiht ehr hubby and they lives and especially the kids..the reason they are living together is coz of the kids and her controlling mom. (her marriage was a shotgun marriage)

I agree with Safe that i am directly and indirectly controbuting to the prob...from her point of view i am an avenue for her to channel out...

Usually I am there for a 3 day trip meet her for a nite or evening or twice depending on my itenary. I dont know if the hubby will listen to me or now or bash me up for the matter...

I am not i a position to judge is they are suitable together or made for each other and its all over coz I am hearing form only one side fo the coin. Her side only. Of course there will be a degree of baisness

The irrisponsibility is on both the husband and wive in my opinion

wah...this is the first time that i have heard of such story....
anyway, i pity for the kids. imagine them seeing their parents bringing back their own partners, i am sure this is going to affect their views and value on relationship...but this kind of problem is not one you as a outsider can solve easily...