troubled and tired mind...

[ben06]

if u guys have read my previous thread...troubled mind...tis is part 2 of my sad and stupid story...
she is back in sg last week...as usual...she will come stay with me...
she didn't call me when she reach sg until 2 days later...i feel she had change...i miss her alot...as its been 5 days seen i last saw her...i guess or rather confirm she is with him...
i'm the weak fucker dat can't seems to let her go...i'm still holding on to our memories...so dat's the reason y i can't seems to let go...?
why...i have to suffer tis kind of mental torture...tis kind of heart pain issue...did i do something wrong in my past or have i done something so wrong dat karma is taking its effect on me now...
so i'm wrong to have fall in love...wrong to have known her...wrong to have put in all my feeling...
i'm so troubled...negative thoughts has cross my mind so many time...i'm 27...still young...still got my parents...i know...
jus dat when the nights come...i will start thinking abt all the bad things...
matters of the heart not easy...wat should i do...i not moving on...jus keep looking back...how...?

[ap12344321]

Since she called u till 2 days later , you are not the 1st choice in her heart .

Juz move on you still young and the forest is still there . Unless u willing to wait till they break off .

[Mr_don_juan]

1.) You have an idea of her. We all do. You must understand that there are so many wonderful females out there that there will be a ton of “perfect” ones. haaa. You must keep an open mind when searching for the one, or you will blind yourself of what you really want.

2.) Past memories are yesterday. Yesterday is over. Whatever happened yesterday is done and over with, and is a part of your life forever. Yesterday could have been the best day of your life, what difference it could make? It’s over no matter what. Live in the present no matter how terrible the present is. Live for today.

3.) You actually didn’t want to feel happy right? You avoided having fun and you avoided smiling. You were trying not to be happy. If you do not make an effort to be happy, you never will. You must find it within yourself to love happiness and try to end those miserable feelings.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ben06

if u guys have read my previous thread...troubled mind...tis is part 2 of my sad and stupid story...

wht you need to start another thread leh?

she will come to stay with you biu how come 5 days you last seen her?
she is fed by another man... this is good.

I cheong vn scene for so long, i also had my fall and still encounter it once awhile. I know a viet gal who choose another guy over me becoz he is single and gives more money than me. I move on....

you are still young. Move on bro..

[myway]

They need $$$$$.
can you provide for her family as well??
if yes, congrats u'll hv more 'bx' to come.
if no, then time to work on ur career n make more $$$$$$$ and come back as a player.
Move on bro.

[arizona]

TS,

Why subject yourself to get love from a WL? You must seriously hv a thought on what is "bed-mate" and "soul-mate" as well as Lust and Love.

what memories that you cant forget are you talking about? Those are not love... its wet-dreams..once you awaken, a fresh new day awaiting you for new bidding.

[gooner8]

Sorry to say but you are pathetic. You do not need anyone for you to be alive. The reason you 'love' her so much is because you can't possess her. Once you have her, you will find she is not that great anyway. What we do not possess has its value magnified about 10 times

Stop feeling about yourself..go and exercise, take a walk in nature and realise you are just a tiny speck in the universe, even the Earth is a tiny speck in the universe.

There are millions and millions of people out there with real problems, unlike your imaginary one, and they are living life to the fullest.

Be happy with the happy memories you have with her but now is the time to kick her out of your life and build other happy memories with others who are more worthy.

[joew2005]

hi ts,get over her ..... & move on w/o her in yr mind.
it might be easier said then done ..... but u hv 2 try veri hard 2 4get her.
with or w/o her, yr life hv 2 go on.

[Triple-X]

Originally Posted by ben06

jus dat when the nights come...i will start thinking abt all the bad things...

ya,just before u want to sleep,lying on yr bed,tossing over n over again.Try doing something at night to make u tired to let u sleep and divert attention from thinking.Sometimes to heal a broken heart,u need another loving heart to repair it.go out have some fun,know and bang some gals n u will be fine

[alan0338]

TS is a part time bar tender rite? got so many meimeis there, change new gal, sure will forget very fast

[leaseoflife]

I think what TS really want to do is to vent out his thoughts and frustrations. Deep inside, I am sure he knows what is going on and quite frankly, would have already knew of all the advices given by bros here.

How I know? Been there, still there, and waiting to be "done that" as well.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by ben06

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matters of the heart not easy...wat should i do...i not moving on...jus keep looking back...how...?

Scars remind us of where we have been, they don’t have to dictate where we are going. You will accomplish nothing if you just sit back and let life get ahead of you. Please regain your sense of worth......

Remember: While love can involve sex, sex does not equal love.....Young man, very soon, when you turn your scars into stars, you will know looking back on your tears would make you laugh

[see see only]

Originally Posted by ben06

why...i have to suffer tis kind of mental torture...tis kind of heart pain issue...

TS learn to let go .... btw if you do not like the feeling you mentioned above ..

Make sure the next girl is someone that love you more than you do


Nevertheless now i believed you still have her body ... enjoy while you can

[Max77]

Originally Posted by see see only

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Nevertheless now i believed you still have her body ... enjoy while you can

yar, dear TS, try things like cim or arse fuck or bondage or dildo. Maybe she feel u not man enuff? Sometime it's not money issue u know...if u learn to make her cum twice within 10mins i bet she'll dump the other guy. No women/man like to hang around wif a sulky face. Cheer up plse

[SC7176]

Another new love is the way to go - u r young and single. When u have family and kids - the ties will always be there - it makes it harder and difficult in future. Plenty of choices - take it as an experience - bitten once.....u learn to be smarter