Little Advice

[mrclen]

I know this is a bit dumb, but I'm going to go over it anyway. Never believe a WG? I visit China 4 or 5 times per year and see 1 KTV girl (30 years old) usually several times while I am in China. Sex and GFE is always great. She never asks me for money except to pay the KTV fines, but since I look at this as her work and how she makes her living, I do give her money and small gifts. If she "red" she will bring a friend if asked.

Now the "rest of the story". We had a plan to go Harbin to see the Ice festival in February, and we were both all excited about a 3 day trip. Of course I would be the one paying for it, but I accept that. She had planned to go to Harbin for CNY to be with her Mother, and then come back and we would go together to see the festival. Got a Wechat (everyday we send at least one each) message from her that she has to go home early because her Mother is in the Hospital with Pneumonia. Sound familiar yet? Told me that business had not good in the KTV and she would have to fly to see her Mother and it was very expensive. However--She did not ask me for anything! She has been there now for a couple weeks, told me what Hospital her Mother is in and her name so I tend to believe she is really there.

Her Mother is supposedly getting worse and she is staying in the Hospital with her most of time. Now, because I believe most of what she saying, I offered to send a small amount of money to help out with her daily expenses. I haven't seen her response yet, but told her via wechat, that it would be small as this is a bad time of year for business. also, to lighten the mood, I expect this to be a down payment for the best sex I have ever had. Any thoughts on this. Just remember, she never asked for any money, I offered. mrclen

[justl00king]

Bro, I've been there and done that..so I get it.


Not sure what kind of advice u r seeking?


Just enjoy the ride and have fun, good luck!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Oldest trick of the trade. Reverse psychology. Make u gv on ur own accord but never ask u to gv. If anything turns sour, they will use the U GV ME ON UR OWN FREE WILL, I ALSO NVR ASK U. If this little investment can bring u that mind blowing sex & u tink its worth it, Y not? But on a lvl of client & svc provider. But if u r kced by her, u better wake up, cos the mother sick, grandmother preggers etc etc is coming out liao. Lastly, she knows ur goin up soon, so y not hv an ang bao earlier from u so she can do her CNY shopping prior to ur arrival where she knows she'll get paid again. Like 13th month n variable bonus. Win win for her in my view

[buiszbuisz]

Think u are believing her already by posting?

Better hold back your Horses and remind u are out for best Fuck.


i know its not exactly relevant. But to share...

In my workplace, when these chinese walk past our diety altar, they can grab the fruits as if its a fucking free flow fruit basket...so i think there are seriously without humane feelings. So why should we return them with too much gratitude?



Of course, when the truth is out, we can console ourselves that we take it as "doing charity". But don't get too cheatEd.


Good Luck.

My point of view.sorry, if i offend any bros/sis out there.

[stillgottheblue]

If you can afford the risk, go ahead!

[PPGirl]

Story seems familiar.

I think most ktv gals will never expect or request anything from u in d beginning.

Maybe the mother is fake one also.. maybe she ask someone to act de?

Sorry to say that Truth hurts but sometimes people tend to believe in lies....

[Ken79]

TS bro, just pay for the tips n sex, nothing more.
Even she is real, true and u genuinely love each other, the fact of how u guys met and her current job, job nature n history will always come back time n again to haunt u.

If u meet a woman with a 'history' u dont know and she hides it from u then its as good as she has no history at all, but keeping it at the back of your mind is a real no no.

Take care, all the best!

[jryjem]

Dear Mr Clen,

If you dont help this girl it may seem you are heartless, she gave you FOC sex & gfe for years but it is hard and pointless to question if it is a trap or genuine case.

You are possibly in the early stages of KC trap. Treat this as an emergency, think no further, delete all her number, wechat, cut off all contact and change your mobile number.

If you still have a hard time forgetting her, suggest you read and re-read this thread http://sgsbf.social/showthr...417&highlight=

Hope it helps, Good Luck.

Originally Posted by mrclen

I know this is a bit dumb, but I'm going to go over it anyway. Never believe a WG? I visit China 4 or 5 times per year and see 1 KTV girl (30 years old) usually several times while I am in China.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by mrclen

I expect this to be a down payment for the best sex I have ever had. Any thoughts on this. Just remember, she never asked for any money, I offered. mrclen

i am sure you also gave her the best sex she ever had, so give only whatever amount is nothing to you.

[Gentle Beast]

In my opinion, I think it is fair to pay for sex. Weighed in the cost against the benefits and compensate up to whatever you think is worth paying for. The only risk involved is when you lose the upper hand if you give in to her KC.

Since you are already in a sexual relationship with her that involve compensation, just continue to play along and enjoy the experience. If it gets to the point where you become uncomfortable with increasing demands, and if you can walk away from it, just say bye!

[JoLim]

Bro TS

Agree that this is likely a trap. Chances of you getting sex from her in future is rare. Instead chances of you thinking of sending money to her is high.
Best move is of course ignore her and forget about her.

Of course the choice is yours

[Wiseman]

Hi Bro

The story is not new. For those i heard, girl don't ask for money but made man pity her and give money to her willingly. The style is similar to yours.
So it is good if you can forget her

Regards

[youngheart69]

bro, my advice to you is not to fall in love nor feel mercy nor responsible for any lady beside your own family.
be very careful with your heart.
can have fun with them but don't let them win your heart.
tactics changed. refer to my other post.
take care, bro.

[archer69]

Simple! Just enjoy and follow your heart.
Don't think about the money.