Sex for married couples

tungsten · #1 08-10-2015, 01:02 AM

Sometimes I wonder how many married guys are frustrated with wife on the lack of interest in sex.

Comments like "You do this just for sex", "All day you just think about sex", "Sex is the only thing on your mind"... Totally pissed...

To guys out there who are married...

If you got a wife who give you sex on regular and frequent basis, please treasure her and stop patronising sex from outside if possible. It just cause unnecessary trouble. A new piece of ass is not worth the trouble if you are already well fed (1-2 times a week min)

If you got a wife who lack sex drive or ignoring your needs... You are not the only one out there. Go out and fuck if that cause less problems.

To ladies out there...

Please do not punish your guy by withholding sex. Once the man start to realise that the best way out of quarrel is to avoid talking about his needs for sex... You can bet that he is likely to have found another supplier and a bigger problem will be created through this mutual destruction move.

twinresist2 · #2 08-10-2015, 01:15 AM

Very true Bro...

TreeTrunks · #3 08-10-2015, 02:40 AM

Haizz what to do

nilmar123 · #4 08-10-2015, 02:43 AM

And to all the single lads about there...

Have all the fun, fuck all the women and get them out of the system before getting married and settling down. You don't want to cheat and sniff office skirts if you have a woman who have your kids.

LeePaiLong · #5 08-10-2015, 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by tungsten

You can bet that he is likely to have found another supplier

Welcome to capitalism

conquer · #6 08-10-2015, 04:07 AM

I don't like the tone TS used which sounds kinda threatening the women to fulfill all the men needs, else the women deserve a cheating husband.

A happy marriage is not only about making a happy husband. Mutual caring and mutual understanding are the keys.

tungsten · #7 08-10-2015, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by conquer

I don't like the tone TS used which sounds kinda threatening the women to fulfill all the men needs, else the women deserve a cheating husband.

A happy marriage is not only about making a happy husband. Mutual caring and mutual understanding are the keys.

Its not a threat. Its a fact.

If one do not have food for days... what will happen. Hunger is the result.

If the supplier still do not wish to supply despite doing the stuff that is being demanded... then what? Roll over and die?

It takes 2 hands to clap. And please read my post again carefully. I DO NOT encourage that as a first resort. Its more like a final resort. Meaning despite trying to be caring and understanding and etc...

Lets not pretend to be saints that most of us are not.

tungsten · #8 08-10-2015, 11:13 AM

Realise my tone in the reply might seems harsh... However if every samster ask themselves this question...

"If your wife and you have a happy marriage and sexually fulfilled to the max. Will you still want to take the chance to have an affair knowing that the happy marriage will be ruined?"

Most samsters will answer no.

If I rephrase the question.

"If your wife and you have a happy marriage BUT you are NOT sexually fulfilled DESPITE trying your best to romance and etc. Will you still want to take the chance to have an affair knowing that the happy marriage will be ruined?"

There will be more people who will fall. Sex is a basic need. Please do not pretend that it does not. And while it is not as BASIC as air and food in Maslow heirarchy of Needs, it is nearly as important as self esteem and having circle of friends.

If want to sound more gender equality. Then man please spend time to talk with your wife, least they find other man to talk. Does this sound threatening or is it a fact?

Johnbass · #9 08-10-2015, 11:58 AM

Tiagong some married couples like to take care of dogs' needs and happily ever after...

MacDD · #10 08-10-2015, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnbass

Tiagong some married couples like to take care of dogs' needs and happily ever after...

Why DO you go round trolling and spoiling threads with inane and irreverent comments. WHY?!

MakeYouBark · #11 08-10-2015, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnbass

Tiagong some married couples like to take care of dogs' needs and happily ever after...

We know you suck your dog off whenever IT (pun not intended) is horny...
Why you have to tell everyone what you did, sicko...

awaiting your bark ....

conquer · #12 08-10-2015, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by tungsten

Its not a threat. Its a fact.

If one do not have food for days... what will happen. Hunger is the result.

If the supplier still do not wish to supply despite doing the stuff that is being demanded... then what? Roll over and die?

It takes 2 hands to clap. And please read my post again carefully. I DO NOT encourage that as a first resort. Its more like a final resort. Meaning despite trying to be caring and understanding and etc...

Lets not pretend to be saints that most of us are not.

Don't worry bro. It's alright with me.

My point being is nothing in this world is perfect, including the marriage. There might be times the wife couldn't fulfill the husband desire. But two wrongs will not make a right, it will take a lot of communication and understanding to get the problem over.

Personal experience, I had a gf before. I told her directly I cheong. She adviced me stop doing that for not hurting her feeling, but even if I insisted, she can only tolerate a hj and bbbj, fj is restricted.

tungsten · #13 08-10-2015, 11:49 PM

Not seeking perfection like 2 x sex every day.

More like a 2 x per week which is a reasonable frequency. Remember need to minus those days on red and either one is sick... not that many days.

Not talking about situatuon like mrt break down once a month... but breakdown of the entire system where it only works a few times per year