How I got cheated by KTV girl Part 2

[BlurWolfe]

Wow bro so sorry to hear that, to be in hell is no joke.

If you dont mind can pm me yr experience so I can learn also.

For me, been to hell and got supported by bros, and mostly spent a lot time at work as economy start slowing since beginning of 2008, plus point has some real local gfs take care of me.

Now I know my life is so boring lor.

Originally Posted by colins

Just been to hell and back, overall still good. hahaha...
So long never see you, share us a good story will ya?

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by colins

Just been to hell and back, overall still good.

It wasn't that bad, bro. More like a hump in the road of life.

[shanshen]

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

It's been a long time since i visited SBF. Been traveling to China lately..
and has been smitten by a WL mei mei there.

Haha.. I won't go into details yet, at least this is not over for me.

I know how the outcome of this is going to be eventually, either we have a platonic relationship or we go our separate ways, but in the meantime, I will always cherished the memories I had with her.

Happy New Year to everyone of you.

good for u. seems u are in the control seat and knows what u want and how to play the game....as long as u understand the end results and can accept, u wount be hurt...

[shanshen]

[QUOTE=colins;3363719]Just been to hell and back, overall still good. hahaha...
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hi bro colins, glad that both u and bro DUBJ are helping those "wounded and lost souls" here and guiding them through their sufferings and leading them to see the light at the end of the tunnel..

u provide very good and sound advice from yr post...

i think u deserve the title " Uncle Agony"

and bro DUBJ deserve the title "Taiji KC" as bro DUBJ provides us with tips and hints to recognise and how to counter it...

[colins]

Originally Posted by shanshen

u provide very good and sound advice from yr post...

i think u deserve the title " Uncle Agony"

Alamak bro, this one really anti-climax la.
That means bro DYBJ is granduncle agony...hahaha
Join us sometimes la, then you get to understand the feeling of getting agonised!

[colins]

Originally Posted by slider_72

It wasn't that bad, bro. More like a hump in the road of life.

Yeah and the top of the car got a conical imprint of my head....

[BlurWolfe]

New Year is here Bro colins, time to forget and forget ( I didnt say forgive and forget hor)

Just move on and get back to reality...

Originally Posted by colins

Yeah and the top of the car got a conical imprint of my head....

[colins]

Originally Posted by BlurWolfe

New Year is here Bro colins, time to forget and forget ( I didnt say forgive and forget hor)

Just move on and get back to reality...

Thanks thanks for the advice...I will remember the lesson. I guess at certain points in our lives, we need to check back on who we really are and what we represent. When I was in my twenties, my progress was quite smooth that I realised now that I've grown very little during that period. Perhaps we need some changes in our lives to be able to continue to mature, and for that requires courage to step out of our safety and comfort zone.

People with clear mind are always very in touch of reality becos they always see thru the cover and get the truth. They make wise decisions and react very fast to real issues. This is what I'm learning at the moment.

[shanshen]

Originally Posted by colins

Alamak bro, this one really anti-climax la.
That means bro DYBJ is granduncle agony...hahaha
Join us sometimes la, then you get to understand the feeling of getting agonised!

thanks for the invite..will join when time permit...let me know when is the next kcing session

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by colins

Thanks thanks for the advice...I will remember the lesson. I guess at certain points in our lives, we need to check back on who we really are and what we represent. When I was in my twenties, my progress was quite smooth that I realised now that I've grown very little during that period. Perhaps we need some changes in our lives to be able to continue to mature, and for that requires courage to step out of our safety and comfort zone.

People with clear mind are always very in touch of reality becos they always see thru the cover and get the truth. They make wise decisions and react very fast to real issues. This is what I'm learning at the moment.

yes bro, there is this saying called 活到老，学到老. it will be much easier to learn frm textbook than reality as book is dead but reality is alive. so alive that there r many things that cant be explained, understood and easily accepted by rule of the thumb. there is also the problem of knwing the reality and facing it. i think 4 one to be mature one has to knw the reality and also be able to face it. facing the reality will make the person stronger everytime mentally and emotionally, till one day he becomes 百毒不侵.

[kefuso]

Originally Posted by colins

People with clear mind are always very in touch of reality becos they always see thru the cover and get the truth. They make wise decisions and react very fast to real issues. This is what I'm learning at the moment.

This is what I am still struggling to learn at the moment Hopefully I can see the light one day, learn to rule and make decisions based on logical and rational grounds rather than emotional needs...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

There's only a right or a wrong!
There's no such thing as you think you're right & he's wrong
White is white & black is black!
Sometimes in life, we gotta do what we cannot bear to do but if by doing that & it saves us, it has to be done.
Remember, no one can damn you unless you damn yourself
No one can cheat you unless you choose to be cheated
No one can love you if you dont even love yourself
No one can fill your emptiness if you dun even know what your emptiness is

Everything is within your own control but if you choose to give that control away to someone else to control you, you're already dead! Cos you're nothing more like a machine...to be "ON" when needed & "OFF" when not required and stashed or placed somewhere & be forgotten.

Bottom line, it's all your won choice and your own doin!

[pewpew]

Foolish Guy = Pay Time n Pay Money but go home PCC
Standard Guy = Pay Money n Pay Bonk
Smart Guy = Pay Condom

New motto i just learnt last month...

[kefuso]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

There's only a right or a wrong!
There's no such thing as you think you're right & he's wrong
White is white & black is black!
Sometimes in life, we gotta do what we cannot bear to do but if by doing that & it saves us, it has to be done.
Remember, no one can damn you unless you damn yourself
No one can cheat you unless you choose to be cheated
No one can love you if you dont even love yourself
No one can fill your emptiness if you dun even know what your emptiness is

Everything is within your own control but if you choose to give that control away to someone else to control you, you're already dead! Cos you're nothing more like a machine...to be "ON" when needed & "OFF" when not required and stashed or placed somewhere & be forgotten.

Bottom line, it's all your won choice and your own doin!

Nice piece of advice for all bros here...Very enlightening and enriching for noobs like me who are new to the scene...Let's hoped that the day where I can join you at your fav joint is the day where I can shake your hand, smile at you and says I have overcome my weakness, my fear, my desires...

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by kefuso

Let's hoped that the day where I can join you at your fav joint is the day where I can shake your hand, smile at you and says I have overcome my weakness, my fear, my desires...

Errrr..... bro, before you can overcome those issues, you first need to understand what are your weaknesses, your fears and your desires. That is the fundamental building block to have a clear mind.