PRC comment (URGENT!) - Page 2

ahpaul25 · #16 31-03-2005, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Kinger

Dear All,

I had an request which like to seek you’all the opinion of as it quite urgent.

The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.

Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!

Best Regards

Bro, how much she want to borrow from you............ It easy to catch her wonder she lied, 1st you ask what illness her parents have? Then admit which hospital? What the $$ is for? Operate which part? You see how her reactions is? Then you update how her response? You have to play mind games with you. those gers are damn smart 1........ I meet many cases........I know what they want.........

Lowell · #17 31-03-2005, 07:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kinger

Dear All,

I had an request which like to seek you’all the opinion of as it quite urgent.

The line begins on the kind of stuff which starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here. Although I came across a lot of stories by some of you guys outta which had good or bad experience, but still hope to get some suggestions and real life feedbacks or email.

Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!

Best Regards

Just a few questions which only you can answer should help you clear this up.

1. Do you really care for her?

Because if you really do, then you should help.

2. Do you have the money?

Well, if you have the money, then go ahead

3. Will you miss the money?

There seems to be a chance you won't get it back. So if you will miss the money, then don't.

4. Are you willing to take the risk?

Same thing. There is that risk that she may be taking you for a ride.

Well, if you answer "YES" to all the questions above, then do what you want to.

Above all, remember this....we can give you all the advice/insults/flames you want, but at the end of the day it is your heart and your head which will give you the answer. Do what you want to do, but only because YOU want to, not because of what we say.

groo · #18 31-03-2005, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Kinger

...... starts with money involve again. This is the first time which it’s my first PRC gal which in hometown mention that her parent is sick. At meantime, which is halfway into coming here again and would like to borrow same cash in return; when here.....

1. She comes here to work. Aim: $$$$$$.......
2. Cannot get the kind of money she wants in double-quick time, contrary to what her friends told her: Sgp is a land paved with gold. Aim: Con a saw-loh for a lot of $$$$$$ n Quit asap....
3. To get this $$$$$$ in triple-quick time, she'll approach all she comes in contact with, her clients, boss, colleagues, even her own tong-zhi......
4. Scared her story is real and her parent or whoever will actually die if she cannot get the money? That's right, then why come all the way to Sgp instead of finding help back home first? By the time she reached Sgp n try to work for $$$$$$, her relative already pack up to join her ancestors liao!

Sorry, this is a fact of life. They will really even con their own tong-zhi when they are desperate. This is my experience when I was in China. And I have enough $$$$$$ problems of my own: my kids schoolbooks/toys/milk powder, wife's shopping, my car installments, my house installments, my maid's salary, ..... blah blah blah. Oh.... n my vitamin M for HC massages!!! Bwahahahahahahah!!!!

Until next time, cheong-ahhhhhhh.............!

iloveoversea · #19 31-03-2005, 08:50 PM

Just a piece of info

in China there is no clinic like those in Sin. There are hospital everywhere. though. If ur sick in China and visit these hospital, they won't give you medication but drip bottle and charge you high price. So if you decided to help out be prepared that the need for vit M does not stop here. All after-mdeical care and the tonic is going to cost as well.

twintower · #20 31-03-2005, 09:05 PM

If you want to believe her then lend lah.

But I tell you, this money is "Yo Qi Wu Hui" means down the drain lia.

Jari_Owen · #21 31-03-2005, 09:17 PM

My 2 cents

If money is in your pocket...you have control over it

If your money already in other pocket....you have NO control over it....they want to return will now depend on them....NOT YOU.....

So you decide

Rof|maoxz · #22 01-04-2005, 06:28 AM

Newcomers please dun quote the whole post, tks.

Optimus_Prime · #23 01-04-2005, 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by groo

Sorry, this is a fact of life. They will really even con their own tong-zhi when they are desperate. This is my experience when I was in China. And I have enough $$$$$$ problems of my own: my kids schoolbooks/toys/milk powder, wife's shopping, my car installments, my house installments, my maid's salary, ..... blah blah blah. Oh.... n my vitamin M for HC massages!!! Bwahahahahahahah!!!!

Until next time, cheong-ahhhhhhh.............!

Well said bro... everybody have $$ problems of their own. That's the samurai spirit, Bro Groo "Serve one master only...yourself"..heheh

Bro Kinger, If u really want to lent her... you would have done so w/o any hesitation.... and not be here asking 4 advise. Enuff said.

Looksee · #24 01-04-2005, 08:38 AM

dun think u should use the term "lent" as far as PRCs are consant........go out no come back.........can write off liao..........sorry hor, my england also cannot make it 1.......BCT.........

meng · #25 01-04-2005, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Looksee

dun think u should use the term "lent" as far as PRCs are consant........go out no come back.........can write off liao..........sorry hor, my england also cannot make it 1.......BCT.........

Mai act act leh....yr ang mo no good me rojak liao...

#26 01-04-2005, 09:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kinger

Personally, feels like although this has’nt any beneficial of putting comments to me but hope this will helps rest of you people out there in future of a clearer vision.

Lastly, thanks for all the assistance and comments!

Best Regards

Me too can't relly understand what you trying to tell us here. But, if it is regarding the money to PRC gal issue, I think you better think twice before you act. Being a regular PRC cheogster, I suggest you believe only 30% of what they told you unless you have known the girl for a very long time and are comfortable to be with her. Of course, that's also depend on whether you have extra cash or not.

Think carefully before you act.....