Is it true that some men do not need sex?

[larue]

Hooray for ceribacy!

Masters of their domains.

[sugarvb]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

What are they celebrating?

Originally Posted by larue

Hooray for ceribacy!

Masters of their domains.

Yes, celibate.

celibate
ˈsɛlɪbət/
adjective
adjective: celibate

1.
abstaining from marriage and sexual relations, typically for religious reasons.
"a celibate priest"
having or involving no sexual relations.
"a celibate lifestyle"
synonyms: unmarried, single, unwed, spouseless, wifeless, husbandless; More
chaste, virginal, virgin, maidenly, maiden, intact, abstinent, self-denying, self-restrained, ascetic;
monkish, monklike, nunnish, nunlike, monastic;
rarecontinent
"a celibate priest"
antonyms: married, sexually active

noun
noun: celibate; plural noun: celibates

1.
a person who abstains from marriage and sexual relations.
"he's attracted and attractive to women and yet he lives as a celibate"

[moscato]

I can still remember years back, he gave me a counselling sesssion as he was my cellgroup leader back then and yes, i was a catholic in the past.

He encouraged me to destroy all of my harddisk containing any form of suggestive pictures, even any form of scantily clad women that can cause me to sin should be avoided.

That is his way of avoidance. He wants me to nip the problem in the bud and remove all forms of stimulus that can cause me to sin.

And of course, he is not successful in helping me

[FredSolo]

Like what a bro said earlier, there are men and woman who are asexual who may not develop sexual desires for others easily. Essentially, they do not necessarily need sex to "survive".

I could write down the characteristics of asexual people but I feel this article should better explain it:

https://www.bustle.com/articles/6929...od-orientation

[I Love Boobs]

Those who pretend to be most pious are the most evil and have the darkest souls

[lechlee]

Perhaps another group of men who don't need sex are the ones who are married and some of them don't seek sex so spontaneously from the wives.
I guess I belong to this group. We are together for coming 8 years and I don't initiate sex anymore Liao. We don't have kids yet because we just got married for a yr. But sex becomes mundane to me already.. no difficulty in erecting.. but I prefer sleeping to sex.. better still masturbation to sex

[candle2000]

Originally Posted by FredSolo

Like what a bro said earlier, there are men and woman who are asexual who may not develop sexual desires for others easily. Essentially, they do not necessarily need sex to "survive".

I could write down the characteristics of asexual people but I feel this article should better explain it:

https://www.bustle.com/articles/6929...od-orientation

Thanks for the link.
Good reading material and a better understanding of why someone becomes uninterested to have sex .

[sgjoey]

Originally Posted by lechlee

Perhaps another group of men who don't need sex are the ones who are married and some of them don't seek sex so spontaneously from the wives.
I guess I belong to this group. We are together for coming 8 years and I don't initiate sex anymore Liao. We don't have kids yet because we just got married for a yr. But sex becomes mundane to me already.. no difficulty in erecting.. but I prefer sleeping to sex.. better still masturbation to sex

Masturbation IS one kind of sex.

[mesosmesos]

how asexual people release their sexual desire? i mean their bodies will naturally "feel" the need rather than the mental part?? wet dreams alot??

[FredSolo]

Originally Posted by mesosmesos

how asexual people release their sexual desire? i mean their bodies will naturally "feel" the need rather than the mental part?? wet dreams alot??

Well wet dreams is a form of release. When the sperms dosen't get released however, it will be broken down and reabsorbed into the body.

[moscato]

There is also one train of though for the ancient chinese that sperm is jing and in one's lives, jing is limited. so if you enjoy too much sex, you are likely to have a much shorter lifespan. the recommeded frequency is once a week and for men above 60 is once a month, or better still to abstain.......

[cloudyvee]

Given how I'm like with ED, I guess I will try to avoid sex if possible

[freezetheDB]

sex is overrated if u meet a dead fish or a log.

but if u meet the right one with chemistry, its highly energising and addictive

[moscato]

Originally Posted by cloudyvee

Given how I'm like with ED, I guess I will try to avoid sex if possible

Bro, i think you should not avoid sex totally.

it seems to me that you are disilliusioned. i do not blame you for that but i hope that you will not give up and continue with your quest on medical help from docs.

i feel that you should want sex not becasue you are on sammyboy and pple are doing it and you want it

rather, you should want sex as you really want it.

it should come out as your own accord, not becasue people are all doing it.

i really do hope that you become cured of this issue which i beleive will not be too difficult as youare still young

cheers

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Originally Posted by moscato

I have a catholic friend.

Known him since sec school.

He is super duper holy and does not need sex

everything in school when we talk about sex or even smuggle playboy to school, he will scoff at us

He remains like this till this day.

So do catholic priest and monks rrrrrrreally abstain from sex??

I really wonder if its just lip service. - No offence intended to religious samster here

never believed that some man don't need sex....everyone has their own demon. Religious people struggle the hardest trying to suppress it...