Must Read For Thai Cheongsters - Page 3

funnyz · #31 22-08-2009, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by paulsun

Me no expert only know the Thai scene but finding a good PRC is harder than tio Toto

Bro, at least have the decency to give the website(Thailand Guru - Guide for living and working in Bangkok and Siam) some credit when plagiarising. Geezz...

indianmagicoil · #32 09-09-2009, 03:37 AM

More experienced Thai chiongsters & social commentators what does it mean if your tilak agrees to do it raw? Does it mean she really loves, trusts and believes you? Or was it in the heat of passion

A little more background info....
1) Both of us were not drunk.
2) She knows very well that I am not a saint before I met her.
3) Yes, she works at a bar so should be fully aware of the risks.
4) I asked more than once coz in the 2 weeks+ she stayed with me coz we ran out of condoms.
5) She is not stupid (country bumpkin) in fact she is one bright spark just that circumstances didn't allow her to continue her further education.

... and "no" we didn't do it raw at all

BeCkHaM_ · #33 09-09-2009, 06:46 AM

[QUOTE=indianmagicoil;4089513]More experienced Thai chiongsters & social commentators what does it mean if your tilak agrees to do it raw? Does it mean she really loves, trusts and believes you? Or was it in the heat of passion

A little more background info....
1) Both of us were not drunk.
2) She knows very well that I am not a saint before I met her.
If she works in a bar, assuming she sells her body for a living(once again no offence ASSUMING). I don't think she is anywhere near a saint either.
3) Yes, she works at a bar so should be fully aware of the risks.
I know many thai ladies who would do me raw even knowing me for the first time foc just for the sake of a better future they think i MIGHT provide.4) I asked more than once coz in the 2 weeks+ she stayed with me coz we ran out of condoms.
She probably know if you could provide for her before she made her decision where to invest in you or not but by going further anot.
5) She is not stupid (country bumpkin) in fact she is one bright spark just that circumstances didn't allow her to continue her further education.
Maybe you can be her ticket to her life she wanted. She could be smart but you have to be smarter to be in control of the relationship.
... and "no" we didn't do it raw at all Good for you !

This is a 50--50 thing my comments are purely in my own opinion. I love the thais but you got to be careful yourself. Fromy our words i cannot really say she is good or bad maybe a whole lot more information would be better.

What ever it is do not be stupid to give in too much (i meant money, its the only thing on the line for her or maybe love which i really give a low percentage for.)

Main thaing i see here is she works in a bar but a waitress is also working in a bar so i did not know what you meant there but being a normal waitress do not pay much and you said circumstances which probably meant money.

My advise: You can continue the "game" with her, have your fill of fun but think clearly emotions cloud judgement. From what i see its better to dump her now than later as your character which i am guessing is probably much softer and you MIGHT cave in when the emotions thing screws with your mind and you start believeing for all the tricks in the book. If you are unsure i suggest you pull out now but maybe a week more so use the last 7 days try as manythings as you like with her .......... than you know the drill.

Good Luck !

indianmagicoil · #34 10-09-2009, 12:14 PM

Thanks Bro Beckham 4 da reply.

Yeah shes no saint either so tat makes us even

Surprisingly she is quite straight forward and candid about what she does when I'm not around and how she feels & thinks.

I've never met any puyings who will do it raw & foc the 1st time! Infact this is the 1st time tat I've encountered this and it was only tiz month tat I popped the Q! U must be very handsome+rich bro for them to take such a risk!

I posted this coz read somewhere that puyings will only do raw with guys they consider their BFs and serious about. Not with sponsors, giks or customers. So wanted to solicit more bros opinions & experiences.

Being humans who wouldn't hold out for a hope of a better life though many here and in other forums & blogs may disagree saying many have become accustomed to this lifestyle. But I know not all puyings are like the stereotypes in cyberspace (refer to Bro Charmaine's last post here.)

Yes very rightly u said tat I'm very soft heart (tatz y all call me jai dee...555) but after being burnt quite badly from my laz affair I'm more wiser & careful now. I've told her we must take things one day at a time but enjoy the moment.

I've made very clear with my current tilak tat I dun own a bank. If shes insincere I predict this won't last beyond 6 months. I dun spoil her by buying expensive stuff nor give her lots of cash to make up for the days she is staying with me. In fact I'm kinda surprise that when we go out she doesn't ask me to buy this & that for her. But its still early in the relationship so I'm still threading with caution.

We're been together 3 months (and counting) now....

enzyme · #35 11-09-2009, 08:06 PM

regardless of the source, thanks to the TS for posting it.

Many people dun recognise credits of people but will only look to criticise.

This is a porno forum, what morals are there to begin with? However, as typical Singaporeans with a 2 sided life, we have a base line code of ethics.

What i read have affected me in a good way, i was treading dangerously on a KC trap and save the world mentality.

Perhaps, i just need some time to get over it...

indianmagicoil · #36 11-09-2009, 09:36 PM

"Honour amongst thieves" I assume would be appropriate here? When there is no ethics (ha ha... moralizing in a porno forum) all hell will break loose.

BeCkHaM_ · #37 12-09-2009, 09:59 AM

There are a handful of good thai ladies i am sure, but to pick one from a bar or a working lady is not really the right way to start. Imagine telling your kids one day i met your mum in a whore house.

Take a step back and think carefully is this the future you want. I have seen so many cases before and all i can say is if you want to trust a bar girl, their lies are so magnificient they can make dog-poo taste so good.

If you do not believe me take a month off work go to thailand and immerse yourself, not the go around fuking girls immerse but the get to know the culture of the villiages and openess of thais about sex and many other stuff.

Trust me you will be in awe how different they are brought up from us.

Bros with messiah complex (save the world mentality) only result for you guys cannot be good for you. The weak spots you have are easy to hit so its better to stay away all togather.

My advise to all: If a lady can betray her body and soul for money, what is love ?

peanut123 · #38 12-09-2009, 02:02 PM

I don't understand what's all this fuss about. Sorry if I sound harsh, but they are hookers, so just bang and forget. Why all this analysis over relationships ? You are just a customer. Do you also make analysis over relationsihps with your female carpark warden ?

indianmagicoil · #39 12-09-2009, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by peanut123

I don't understand what's all this fuss about. Sorry if I sound harsh, but they are hookers, so just bang and forget. Why all this analysis over relationships ? You are just a customer. Do you also make analysis over relationsihps with your female carpark warden ?

Do u bang your car park warden?

... well unless they started hiring SYTs in tight uniforms... but that'll be under "whats your fantasy thread".

555... Bro I post this all in good fun. if we really want to analyze a lot of posts+blogs here and on the net from fellow chiongsters & armchair social-anthropologists.

We r actually straying off topic a bit... I just ask... what it means if puying agrees to do raw. Have you been upgraded from customer to BF?

indianmagicoil · #40 12-09-2009, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by BeCkHaM_

There are a handful of good thai ladies i am... body and soul for money, what is love ?

Thanks bro for the concern & advice. I don't like kids and don't intend to have any so that should solve the problem of having to answer "where did u meet mommy?"

I have some business interests in Thailand for the last 5 years and do stay for extended periods of time, anywhere from 2 weeks up to 3 months, so I'm very well aware of the social-economic backgrounds that a majority of these girls come from. Over the years I've met many people from the different social strata of Thai society so its not correct to write off a whole country based on some people's limited personal contacts.

As I mention to Bro Peanut... I posted this Q for fun and not to social analyze the current Thai psyche. I think we r straying off my main Q which is... What does it mean if your tilak agrees to do it raw? Have you been upgraded from customer to BF? Small Carrot to Big Fish?

To all bros reading this and chiongin Thailand... sanuk+chok dee na!

BeCkHaM_ · #41 13-09-2009, 02:50 AM

ok keep in topic i think bf and customer is much the same.

customer can have many bf also can have many.

only difference customer is not at beck and call but bf got obligations.

since not much difference in the status i rather be customer

suteerak1099 · #42 26-09-2009, 11:37 AM

truth be told, not all ladies of the night are scums of the earth, its the good-for-nothings in their private lives that are. the crutch mentality of those in the villages have swelled so much, that it has become an invisilble rule, or, legit way of life.

for generations it hasnt changed, while the yr on yr inflation vs weakening currencies, n increasing awareness & covetousness of the high-life, that piles heaps of financial liabilities/ burdens. 1 hole is yet to be covered, they start digging 2 or 3 more holes. that being the case, the poor girl just has to surrender her fate of having millions more pricks penetrating her, all because of the face value in the village.

its become a norm these days, that even those in the educated rung r converting from day to night stalkers. when asked y they chose the panty dropping path? the most common answer: lucrative. they're inclined towards that industry, sometimes irrational. they want the material pleasures, not for herself, but for the family.

the typical wish list (sometimes irrational as well):
1. i wanna erect a new house for my folks & siblings to live in (no problems with the existing house - mortgage not cleared yet)
2. i didnt get a chance to study, so i wanna put my siblings thru university (university in the province? little or no emphasis for practical industry requirements)
3. the tractor on the farm is old & problematic, need to get a new 1 (never been serviced in the last decade)
4. the pick-up is problematic, need to get new 1 (never been serviced in the last decade)
5. need to get my siblings motorcycle to commute on daily (what's wrong with a bicycle?)
6. need to buy bigger plot of land for agriculture (existing plot of land hardly utilized)
7. cousin getting married, need to raise funds for the wedding reception (u'd wonder how 1 who's incapable of throwing a banquet/feast, can actually finance a family/marriage)
8. relative undergoing expensive medical treatment, need to raise funds to help
9. need to pay for condo in bkk (wat's wrong w living in smaller apartment?)
10. need to pay off debts for pathological gambling folks (very clear that they suck at gambling, cos they lose more than they can pay off, so y let them continue?)

the list can just go on n on n on. the question is, how is getting her body desecrated by strangers by any means, considered filial piety?

sometimes, they went looking for the financial burdens themselves.

indianmagicoil · #43 01-10-2009, 07:08 PM

Sad but true. Thats why the Bangkok elites have so openly insinuated that their up country cousins are too "stupid" to manage their own affairs what more a country's in the on going political circus. Then on the flip side we are getting middle class girls joining the trade but in more upscale joints all because of the pursuit of material wants.

paulsun · #44 15-10-2009, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

its become a norm these days, that even those in the educated rung r converting from day to night stalkers.

the list can just go on n on n on. the question is, how is getting her body desecrated by strangers by any means, considered filial piety?

sometimes, they went looking for the financial burdens themselves.

orange come from orange Tree ,durian come from durian Tree,if mix with black also become black ,in Thailand ,eat sabai food sure better than us ,only they wants to follow our Level ,Drive big car and big house ,so also fall into Golden Tree Dreams ,pretty FL come SG can make 10k over within a mth ,so many ppl wants to suck the dollars into pussy ,even feed and sent thousands and thousands of dollars into their bank account mthly,but the night she sleep with another man ...

To work FL is already selling body as also own Repect and also lots of singaporean man like to burn own money ,dont understand why ...

That's why I open this Thread to let Bros knowing later ...there is unseen way future with all this FL ....some ppl might thinking can change them ,own view ,But for cheonging so many years and seeing so many bros try to change them ,90% all failed ,But If you think the 10% is you ,by on go ahead ...for me I will save this 10% to buy ToTo that going for after FL ....

Paulsun

Teekopek · #45 17-10-2009, 02:20 AM

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Originally Posted by indianmagicoil

Thanks Bro Beckham 4 da reply.

Yeah shes no saint either so tat makes us even

Surprisingly she is quite straight forward and candid about what she does when I'm not around and how she feels & thinks.

I've never met any puyings who will do it raw & foc the 1st time! Infact this is the 1st time tat I've encountered this and it was only tiz month tat I popped the Q! U must be very handsome+rich bro for them to take such a risk!

I posted this coz read somewhere that puyings will only do raw with guys they consider their BFs and serious about. Not with sponsors, giks or customers. So wanted to solicit more bros opinions & experiences.

Being humans who wouldn't hold out for a hope of a better life though many here and in other forums & blogs may disagree saying many have become accustomed to this lifestyle. But I know not all puyings are like the stereotypes in cyberspace (refer to Bro Charmaine's last post here.)

Yes very rightly u said tat I'm very soft heart (tatz y all call me jai dee...555) but after being burnt quite badly from my laz affair I'm more wiser & careful now. I've told her we must take things one day at a time but enjoy the moment.

I've made very clear with my current tilak tat I dun own a bank. If shes insincere I predict this won't last beyond 6 months. I dun spoil her by buying expensive stuff nor give her lots of cash to make up for the days she is staying with me. In fact I'm kinda surprise that when we go out she doesn't ask me to buy this & that for her. But its still early in the relationship so I'm still threading with caution.

We're been together 3 months (and counting) now....

I've never met any puyings who will do it raw & foc the 1st time
Bro u can get a dozen when u go chiong at bangkok...nothing special about that.then wats the point of being a sponser when u only fuck the rubber?think about it..if thats the case then the sponser go chiong better..might have better luck.

Conclusion: fuck raw with a thai puying is a common thing.hope bros get this fact well in your head.no special reason needed.as long as she gets what she is after or as long as she likes.

We're been together 3 months (and counting) now
Bro all i can say is u got a long way to go...always make your stand clear sbout $$.never spoil them or you will regret.Every relationships thai-singsapore relationships start this way.No money involve intially.1-2years later definetly won't be this way anymore.just like filling sand into a well,Never ends!.