would you ever LOVE/BE with someone who was "once" a slut ? though shes changed.

[QCx2]

Love is patient and kind, it is never jealous. love is never boastful or conceited, it is never rude or selfish, it does not take offence, nor is it resentful. Love takes no pleasure in others sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes.[/QUOTE]

Bro, I totally agrees with you (about what love is). Although a lot of people out there will think tht men like us are very silly.

I had yet to forgive myself till this day for causing her the hurt and bringing on to her the tears (by saying hurtful words) ... when she repeatedly wants to return back to the trade... telling herself (and me) tht she doesn't have a choice.

However, there were really a lot of ups and downs throughout and at 1 point, I really didn't know how to manage the pain.

And thus, I made up a very big lie, so tht she would hate me and let us to let it go.

And why would I want to do tht, in case someone who reads this might ask?!

It is because each time when she felt tht she needs to make a return back to the trade, it was because she claims tht she needs to do it for her love ones i.e. family.

Therefore, I told myself... she really needs to make the tradeoff and someone 'has to depart from this story'. I rather she hates me and think tht I am a bad person... then to live with guilt and regrets, blaming herself for having a jinxed life (thinking tht herself is rotten and who doesn't deserves to have a relationship).

I'm not saying tht I'm noble... bcoz I know, I am not. She once cried till her voice was coarsed... and said, if I truly loved her... why can't I protect her alwys (and then I gave in and fulfill her request). After awhile, while continuing to help her... I really came to a point when I no longer hav the ability to do so... and thus, I told her the big lie.

Looking back, I can only told myself tht I had tried.

Do you call this true love... ?! I honestly don't know. She might be happier if she didn't know me. And besides, I can't bear the pain by seeing in her eyes... and continuously reminding her of how we met in the first place.

[lglg666]

If she has repented and changed.....then it is best to move on and let what past be past! But the most important question you must ask yourself....do you
really love her that much to over-look her past? If your answer is YES!!! then go ahead and be happy!

Frankly....it takes a big man to do that hehehe. I salute him if he is happy with that thot!

My 2 cents worth.

[AsiaDick]

A slut is always a slut lah... change also does not mean she is really changed..just like how leopards cant change their preents... lol..

[hihiz]

So many wise words posted, but it's a sad fact that some will never change, but not all.

This is a screwed up society.

"Love is patient and kind, it is never jealous. love is never boastful or conceited, it is never rude or selfish, it does not take offence, nor is it resentful. Love takes no pleasure in others’ sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes."

i like that paragraph.

[liberatte]

Quote: “Great men are not always wise”

Sluts are still human. Looking at it from another perspective, she could have been a slut before. But if she has repented, you being able to accept her past will ensure her gratitude. All you need to do is to sit back and enjoy 'her'.

On the other hand, you might stand a chance to loose her if you're not able to satisfy her sexual needs. As much as she wants to be with you, its about the company and not about sex. Like brothers here, we outsource our needs once in a while. Everybody would have their ow hidden libido and its just a matter of time that we bring it out.

If you've enjoyed some of the stories here, you may find some gf/wife turned to sluts AFTER a long relationship with their respective partners. That may be a nightmare to some, but some people may enjoy it. As I've said, its all about perspective.

[handcell]

TS, if u REALLY LUV DEEPLY with her ... and she is willing to change and be your slut ONLY, den u should accept her .. keke