The "Too good to be true" syndrome

[talismann]

Perhaps you are fishing in the wrong pond. I can already imagine many PRCs lining up to try to chop your carrot head. Notice I said 'try', doesn't imply they'll succeed. Point being, you would be Grade A bait to them and difficult to pass up on.

[David Lim]

It is qute obvious the TS is delusional. The gals is doing the 'You are soo soo good to be true, I am not good enough for you' crap. In real terms, it is the gals' diplomatic way of saying 'You Suck! You are such a fucking bore! Don't bother me anymore!'

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by junkie

1. I'm too nice a guy

stop being nice for a start.
from what i know, women certainly do not appreciate ppl who are nice to the point that they are being step overs.

ever try a social escort before ?
perhaps they might provide you some tips to as what other factors you can improve on.

[neogeo2]

Most of my ugly fiends end up with the better looking girls. Especially my shanghainese friends. I dunno what the girls see in them but must b enough for them to devote their everything to the cause

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by junkie

.... I suffer from the "Too Good To Be True" syndrome.?Basically, what it is is that;

1. I look attractive enough
2. I can afford the finer things in life
3. I'm quite articulate and can hold a conversation well
4. I'm available most of the time
5. I'm too nice a guy

Originally Posted by D-joker

IMHO, be bad then. Show them ur dark side.
男孩不坏，女人不爱..

Originally Posted by pussywallower95

There is no such thing as "Too Good to be True" when it comes to having a FB. A FB doesn't need commitment. All you need is to be a a fun and nice guy and make no empty promises.

For friends with benefit, chemistry plays an important part in sustaining the relationship. And that has nothing to do with the above you mention, unless it's just a fxxx & go.

Can you both stimulate each other mentally & sexuality? Do u make her feel desired & special enough? If yes, the rest of the qualities are just sweeteners ... bonus.

Knowing how to treat a woman right & being sensitive yet knowing when & how to have fun is important. If we read the man as boring, then the game is over already.

Most likely, its when the girl comes from a really humble background &/or met only 'losers' all their life, would she comment you'll 'too good to be true'. but that would be if you'll professing undying love to her.

If I'm just your FB, then I'll be counting my blessings that I've got a good catch.

I've been asking myself lately if it's true that 男孩不坏，女人不爱. Yes & no I guess. I've met several guys lately .... Most seems to possess most of the qualities you mention. But at the end of the day, I'll choose the one who has the chemistry with me, who makes me want more & desire more, who's sustain my interest (read: not boring) & is ''坏" & 'man' enough for me.

So you see, being 'too good to be true' may not be good enough after all.

[tan-tan]

Self blinded!!

[Turtle]

Originally Posted by LoveAngel

who's sustain my interest (read: not boring) & is ''坏" & 'man' enough for me.

not man but turtle can?

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by Turtle

not man but turtle can?

I too Can

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by Turtle

not man but turtle can?

Originally Posted by ah rat

I too Can

How does one make love to a turtle or a rat???
I prefer a man .... a REAL man ....

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by LoveAngel

I prefer a man .... a REAL man ....

Some kind of loveangel you are. Real men can't do what a rat and a turtle can do. Can't recall when you last saw a turtle and a rat appearing together? Well, let me remind you. Those two nicks come from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles! Ever tried superhero sex? They can do what real man can't. Haha...

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Some kind of loveangel you are. Real men can't do what a rat and a turtle can do. Can't recall when you last saw a turtle and a rat appearing together? Well, let me remind you. Those two nicks come from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles! Ever tried superhero sex? They can do what real man can't. Haha...

Hmm ... Xgenre dear, so what kinda loveangel do u think I am?

Honestly, I wouldn't wanna know what a turtle & a rat can do that a real man can't. But I'm pretty sure I'm not into such 'kinky' sex & I sure do know without the slightest doubt what a MAN can do, that a turtle & a rat can't. Lol

Tell me about 'superhero sex' ... I might get turned on enough to consider.

Geez .... why are we on turtle & rat sex?? Hahaaa ...

[MonteCristo]

Originally Posted by junkie

Dudes...

I'm not sure if you suffer from this but I've been told by many lady friends who had the potential to be my FB that I suffer from the "Too Good To Be True" syndrome.

Basically, what it is is that;

1. I look attractive enough
2. I can afford the finer things in life
3. I'm quite articulate and can hold a conversation well
4. I'm available most of the time
5. I'm too nice a guy

Do you guys suffer from that too which is why it's not as easy to find a friend with benefits of the opposite sex?

Just thought I'd rant here about the dilemma that I'm facing.

Any thoughts?

Dude.

That is not "Too Good To Be True" syndrome. That is "To Kind To Be Cruel" excuse for ladies not wishing to hurt you when they obviously don't feel the chemistry between you.

And there you have it, my thoughts.

Might as well let you know. Good guys don't search for friends with benefits of the opposite sex. They know better not to. And yes , the following is true. Good guys finish last.

[blohsg]

Funny stuff with the animal planet coitus so the lady in question seems to want you more than a fb or hasn't made up her mind? Did you give her some choices to decide on what you'd like to do? nothing wrong with being too good to be true. Its what you do with it. Keep us posted how things progress.

[pinkkk]

hmm, dont waste ur time at your normal friends.

I dont FB with degraded guys unless i am very desperate. It is like dining at food court. mOST OF THE TIME, i buy all cheapo thing and throw them away.

U need to keep your standard high if u were really good as u stated.

2 cents from an opposite sex.

ps: tiring typing with my newly polished long nails.

[blohsg]

Pinkkk : Manicured nails ? French Tips ? Are you saying you're rather talk about it face to face ? Maybe T/S should drop you a PM and show you a good time and you can tell us whether he's as good as he gets ?

hehe Maybe he wants to make friends and see where he could go from there ?