please tell me what can i do?

[RaoulTan]

Unlicensed Debt Collector...

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by hokkienguy

abt 40k... my dad low income earner butusing his blood n sweat to earn one.
even
if only $4000 i will also chase it back for him

well bro, dont mind, i am confused why your savings are taken out without you knowing. and there must be a good or bad reason why your parent loaned so much money to the woman. unless you have a lot more money, to lend someone 40k as KC loan is unlikely.

anyway, use street method to recover the money means 50/50, half go to street guys. but it all depends on what agreement in repayment was made in the first place.

[DNAT]

This kind of personal loan (w/o black n white) very ley-chey 1 ...... haizzzz.

Very sad to hear about your mom's case

Years back, a samster (space***) also used another samster's trust/friendship and made him loan out almost S$10K and the chee bye borrower 'run-road' ....... na bey pua chee bye!

then again, another real incident:

samster free said a fellow samster (I cannot say who lah, later he angry he use Or Kao Beet bottle and hammer me then I die ... hehe) very support his tirakship, so free thought could ask him to lend S$3k so that free can go LOS to visit his tirak cos free said he got 8 months never visit his tirak liao and his business payment was delayed, so must 'chong' some $.

(knn, dun reply me say this is history liao so dun bring up hor, we also learn from history ok).

Lan jiao lah, best is if you duno that person very well better dun get involved too large amount of money.

[FUCKYOU]

knn, this is history liao u still bring up..kee kee kee

Originally Posted by DNAT

This kind of personal loan (w/o black n white) very ley-chey 1 ...... haizzzz.(knn, dun reply me say this is history liao so dun bring up hor, we also learn from history ok).

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by FUCKYOU

knn, this is history liao u still bring up..kee kee kee

I hope that time free asked that S$3K loan from you and you fucking happily lent it to him ...... lim peh si bey happy to see you each month receives S$100 from him, over a 2.5 years of repayment period. keekeekee

[FUCKYOU]

lent 3k.. return 3k in 2½ year???? u tell me where to find... i go and borrow also..

Originally Posted by DNAT

I hope that time free asked that S$3K loan from you and you fucking happily lent it to him ......

[hokkienguy]

Originally Posted by Castrol

well bro, dont mind, i am confused why your savings are taken out without you knowing. and there must be a good or bad reason why your parent loaned so much money to the woman. unless you have a lot more money, to lend someone 40k as KC loan is unlikely.

anyway, use street method to recover the money means 50/50, half go to street guys. but it all depends on what agreement in repayment was made in the first place.

not my money.. it is belong to my dad, he doesnt have an account himself ..so now i told him to open an a/c for himself but then all along all his money was kept by my mom.. or using her a/c u see. My dad din ask her to show the bankbook. This is trust... but .. very very disppointed.. My father n myself can get anything out from my mom.. she refused to say anything abt how does the money goes.. One lump sum or bit by bit...

I tried to talk to her this afternoon.. Not even 5 mins she got angry n hanged up the phone.. when i came home.. i was suprised tat she was at home cos she supposed to help at her friend's stall. I asked her why so early.. she was very not happy to reply me..


I feel like leaving this home after i settle this matter.

I got no one to talk to... that y i am here....

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by hokkienguy

My father n myself can get anything out from my mom.. she refused to say anything abt how does the money goes.. One lump sum or bit by bit...
I tried to talk to her this afternoon.. Not even 5 mins she got angry n hanged up the phone.. when i came home.. i was suprised tat she was at home cos she supposed to help at her friend's stall. I asked her why so early.. she was very not happy to reply me..

No offence Bro, but it seem strange that your mom doesn't want to talk about it. It seems that it might be a business deal that your mom is involved in had gone sour. Or that the $ was not actually a "loan" and something else. Maybe your mom went to a casino and lose the $ and had cooked up this story.

It seems that there is more than meets the eye.

If it was a loan that went wrong, the lender sure KPKB and try all means possible to recover the loan. Its unusual that your mom wants to keep quiet about it.

[hokkienguy]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

No offence Bro, but it seem strange that your mom doesn't want to talk about it. It seems that it might be a business deal that your mom is involved in had gone sour. Or that the $ was not actually a "loan" and something else. Maybe your mom went to a casino and lose the $ and had cooked up this story.

It seems that there is more than meets the eye.

If it was a loan that went wrong, the lender sure KPKB and try all means possible to recover the loan. Its unusual that your mom wants to keep quiet about it.

that is what i am worried now... she doesnt want to tell me anything yet.
My mom dun gamble what i know.. but Who knows...i hope not la.

but the lender did return some money to my dad b4.. but only 4000 dollars.

[forbidden]

bro,

i think you have to add in the IOU stating that the money repayable will not include any interest. if not the woman say u all ah long charge interest den u siao liao...

just my opinion..

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by hokkienguy

that is what i am worried now... she doesnt want to tell me anything yet.

Why do you try to coax the truth out of her. Tell her that whatever mistake or wrong that she might have done, you and the rest of the family will stand beside her and face it together as a family. Try talking to her rationally and logically, don't pressure her to tell you the truth, she will eventually tell you or someone that she trust. Talk to her nicely.

Since that person had return your dad $4K, why don't you also ask the lender what actually had conspired between your mom and her.

[hokkienguy]

Originally Posted by forbidden

bro,

i think you have to add in the IOU stating that the money repayable will not include any interest. if not the woman say u all ah long charge interest den u siao liao...

just my opinion..

i wun charge interests la.. I am not Loan Shark

[hokkienguy]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

Why do you try to coax the truth out of her. Tell her that whatever mistake or wrong that she might have done, you and the rest of the family will stand beside her and face it together as a family. Try talking to her rationally and logically, don't pressure her to tell you the truth, she will eventually tell you or someone that she trust. Talk to her nicely.

Since that person had return your dad $4K, why don't you also ask the lender what actually had conspired between your mom and her.

i will try .. bro.. u know.. Not easy.

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by hokkienguy

that is what i am worried now... she doesnt want to tell me anything yet. My mom dun gamble what i know.. but Who knows...i hope not la. but the lender did return some money to my dad b4.. but only 4000 dollars.

Sorry for a bit kaypoh. Did this ever lead you to link to the "apple con"? Normally their tactics were :

1) not to tell other or otherwise got cursed.
2) buying item that is not valuable but said to have super power etc.

Maybe that's the reason... My guess only

Originally Posted by The_Unrepentant

EVEN WITH IOU,at most u can make her bankrupt by hiring a lawyer to sue her(u pay the $$ urself). Then they will go her house paste one paper say she bankrupt.

The lawyer fee cause a few thousand eventually.(for my case)

Then after a few years, if she still don pay u back the money u can reapply to make her maintain her bankrupt status.(i think need money again.chao chee bye!)

Wooh, I never know you got such an interesting case leh... I thought your bank got $2000++ oni hehe