Any good reason to give to wife - Page 3

sony2002 · #31 25-09-2015, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Discreet hobby

But too bad, I don't have a "SAF 100" to show her.

photoshop?

but i think the biggest problem is the date stamp on your passport, which can never be removed until you renew it

sadfa · #32 25-09-2015, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by arsenal168

If that happens, ultimate classic!

But seriously...if wife demands SAF100 then proceed to verify with Mindef, there is no love or trust anymore in this marriage.

I think due to privacy laws, mindef should say sorry cannot comply.

But of cos if Ts is cuckoo n forge saf100 to say top secret mission in Cambodia, mindef can't diam diam

parrotkid · #33 25-09-2015, 03:50 PM

If you go overseas then later she check passport how?

hhlover · #34 25-09-2015, 04:28 PM

Saf 100.. i tot now already no longer using tat.. only scan green ic..
Anyway TS now is the best chance to say go ns.. then u can plus the excuse.. they send u go indo to fight the haze.. so even passport got stamp oso no scare.. haha..

Splitter100 · #35 25-09-2015, 08:33 PM

Love does becomes bland as it ages

TS is looking for a girl that gives the "feel"

It might not be sex all the time

That girl happen to be AMY

Been there and done that

After a while AMy will get tired of this relationship

Both will get hurt

HonkyTonkyMan · #36 25-09-2015, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by sadfa

Don't worry. You're juggling with 2 fireballs.
I predict n guarantee you'll fucking burn in due time.

Second you on that...been there got burn real bad and now scared and scarred for life..

dresden · #37 25-09-2015, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Babyrexx

It's understandable at times when we have physical needs. But goin into another relationship when U are married is a very Despicable thing to do. Dun led people on a journey that goes to nowhere.

yeah, it's a pity that people blessed with marriage may still fool around , think about others who are not married yet have no foreseeable opportunity to be engaged in one

btblue8 · #38 26-09-2015, 12:07 AM

I agree that should tell Amy you are married. If you continue with Amy, down the line she will either find out anyway. Or if she doesn't find out she would likely want more commitment from you. Either way you would be in the same predicament later one, but bigger problem.. But then again could be said the same for your wife...

FishPartner · #39 26-09-2015, 12:08 AM

that u are going with a good friend/

Discreet hobby · #40 26-09-2015, 12:59 AM

Thanks brothers for all your valuable advice and concern.

I have just turn down Amy holiday suggestion as too high risk, giving excuses of work commitment due to limited resources at work. She is a bit disappointed.

Will seriously think of a way how to break the news to her about my marital status. Need 天时地利人和

Anyway, one headache less, one more to clear.

Thanks again brothers for all your advice. Sincerely appreciate it

sadfa · #41 26-09-2015, 01:03 AM

Tell her nonchalantly like while buying bubble tea, BTW Amy you know I'm married right?

Discreet hobby · #42 26-09-2015, 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted by sadfa

Tell her nonchalantly like while buying bubble tea, BTW Amy you know I'm married right?

I think her jaw will drop...

Need to find a special moment, like how someone suffers in their marriage and when she starts to sympathize, then that is my opportunity to break the news. Hopefully she understand.

Discreet hobby · #43 26-09-2015, 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Splitter100

Love does becomes bland as it ages

TS is looking for a girl that gives the "feel"

It might not be sex all the time

Both will get hurt

Indeed, its the connection that hits off.

Maxlion · #44 26-09-2015, 02:16 AM

Seriously u better dun be in a marriage lah..

U put yourself in ya wife shoes u will know..

Want eat scare,dun even dare be a man just for a pussy..

U reap what u sow..trust me

ilwtmlabnn · #45 26-09-2015, 11:47 AM

no matter what, you are at a losing end now. like what others have said, you are handling two fireballs, one is your wife whom you walked down the wedding isle with while the other is probably one who is looking for one to walk down with. should something happens, you will get burnt real bad, especially so when you know women cannot be offended or cheated.

Probably you should stick to your marriage now and end off the relationship with amy. i don't think it's very nice to cheat amy's feelings with her thinking that you are single. Now the hard part is how to break this sudden news of you being married to her and make sure that she don't make a fuss such as contacting your wife or whatsoever. if amy is just an innocent lady looking to settle down like any other girl, im sure she wouldnt want to be a third party who breaks family up.

Perhaps you should convey that your feelings for amy is real to her and just be honest, saying that you are guilty, apologetic and being unfair to her. you shouldnt sound as if you are doing for yourself only, but also for her as you cant bring yourself further to cheat her. be honest and sincere. hopefully she will take things in a cool manner or at least not in an disastrous way. i wish that things will be cleared smoothly at your side. please dont do it again, going around breaking girl's heart. stay faithful and put in a bit more effort to enjoy your marriage. it's a beautiful thing.