Saw my ex-gf got married last Sunday

[ken_v2]

this is life... learn to accept it coz there's nothing you can do about it... i don't think u want to get involved with her again and wrecked her marriage. look at the bright side... you are still her first love...

any way, you are now free to look for a better one... cheers!

[blade]

this thread seems familiar to alot of bros here hor..think we all have our experience and past..it also happened to mi..there was 2 but one whom i had deep memories..cos this gal liked mi..then she started to know me better thru my friends..tat time i din really take any thoughts about her cos she was no where near good looking(ya i abit hiam abt looks la..but now ok la..last time young)then i don really care..slowly becos of her persistant, we slowly know each other better..ya she was cute but not pretty..but willing..we had some good time together,kissing and heavy petting..tried alot of things but nv had intercourse cos she was like 14+ at tat time n i was 16+(lucky i nv wor..nv know how i managed to control haha)
but in the end we broke up after 3 mths..cos we were nv like officially gf/bf cos she was willing i was horny..and she went back to malaysia after tat..din even dare to see her off cos i initiate the break off and just distance off..and i guess she got the message..felt guilty abt it for a while..but heard tat she got married in malaysia like 2 yrs later..i actually felt relived and happy for her..haha think i felt like a elder brother towards her lor.. didnt feel jealous or anything la..partly maybe cos i nv really loved her n i have a steady gf

[kaizer]

Originally Posted by blade

slowly becos of her persistant, we slowly know each other better..ya she was cute but not pretty..but willing..we had some good time together,kissing and heavy petting..tried alot of things but nv had intercourse cos she was like 14+ at tat time n i was 16+(lucky i nv wor..nv know how i managed to control haha)

wah siao eh, how u control? still remember how i deflower my ex, shes like 14 and im 16 at tat time.. lol, we were having petting and she was damn horny la, so she ask me try to insert abit, liew, i without hesitation, i juz quickly but gently insert into her.. and thus giving my virginity to her and hers to me. haha after the act, she told me she juz wana try abit onli, nvr imagine i will insert everithing and pump her until so song.

[wins1973]

When both virgin, having sex is the best both dun know how to do and anyhow try hehehhe....very funny...

[blade]

Originally Posted by kaizer

wah siao eh, how u control? still remember how i deflower my ex, shes like 14 and im 16 at tat time.. lol, we were having petting and she was damn horny la, so she ask me try to insert abit, liew, i without hesitation, i juz quickly but gently insert into her.. and thus giving my virginity to her and hers to me. haha after the act, she told me she juz wana try abit onli, nvr imagine i will insert everithing and pump her until so song.

actually i oso not sure i how "tong and tahan" not to deflower her..guess it was becos i don really love her ba..then there was always a guilt in my heart like i was juz toying with her feelings lor..guess i really treat her as a sis lor..and the sexual part onli lasted for like 3 weeks..meet her at her hse onli thrice everyweek cos too far le..north area when im in the west..but abit wasted ya? haha pple already other pple wife le..don think so much better

[wins1973]

Hi,

Me also stay west, in my whole life she is the only girl staying in west and somehow opposite my block , other than that mostly are from north and east side, super sian alway need to travel a long distance to meet them. That why i always miss my ex staying opposite me. Sometime, i will peep at her when she going out with his bf...sigh....this is life lor......

Know her when i was in the army, when down to collect documents for my camp, and she actually working in an charity organisation as a part-time staff "dun know what name of the charity" in orchard road. Was so happy to saw her there and my eye can't stop looking at her and her C cup size breast. She was also tall around 173 and i think i m quite bad after our realtionship i keep peeping her and bf near our area. On bed, she will show me the blur blur face but when we go out she is a decision maker......

No regret of knowing her in my whole life. When my last day come, the person i want to see is her but not anyone....

[wins1973]

Staff give T.T. Durai standing ovation
They and board rally around him. Patient says many would've died if not for him
By Joyce Teo
July 14, 2005
The Straits Times
THE staff at the National Kidney Foundation gave chief executive T.T. Durai a standing ovation yesterday evening after he gave a short address to a packed auditorium at NKF headquarters.

As he returned to work, staff and the NKF board rallied around their embattled CEO.

'He told us we have to carry on because the patients depend on us and not to let what happened to him affect us,' said NKF's deputy director of communications Michelle Ang.


'He works very hard and that's the only way anyone can run this place. He is relentless. He really does it for the patients.'

She added that apart from one day of compassionate leave, he has not taken a holiday since 1992, when he became chief executive.

Mr Job Loei, 41, manager of NKF's patient advancement department, has been undergoing subsidised dialysis for the past 12 years and said he owed Mr Durai his life. 'If the NKF was not around and Mr Durai not driving it, I don't think I would be here today.

'I've seen him work. It's his passion. He works seven days a week, by choice, for a larger cause.'

The former pastor said Mr Durai's integrity is not in question. 'He sets very high standards. For example, when we get New Year hampers, we can't take any. They will be channelled to the poor patients.'

Said NKF patient Yeo Say Ann, 36: 'If he was not around, many would have died. It's okay if the $262 million in reserves earns interest... It was always his intention to build up the reserves.'

According to both staff and patients, Mr Durai believes able kidney patients should contribute to society, so they do not take donor funds for granted.

Mr William Tan, 42, an NKF patient since 1997, is a case in point.

Said Mr Tan: 'When I first met him in 1997 to ask for subsidies, he scolded me. He said he wouldn't lower my co-payment if I didn't work. My impression of him was very bad... But I realised he was trying to tell me not to give up on life.'

Mr Durai's words pushed him to get a job and a diploma in computer studies. Added Mr Tan: 'His entire life is spent on building up the organisation. He deserves his pay.'

Like Mr Tan, Mr Loei felt that Mr Durai's $25,000 pay and generous bonuses are not excessive.

'The bottom line is how many lives you have saved.'

If I stay I still continue to cheat singaporean money

Let boycott him

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by wins1973

guy who wear spectacle look smart and decent.

really? then better throw away my contacts liao..

[sunnylow67]

Bro JoyStick & Hustler,

Lucky both of you!

I met my ex while I was with that-time current girlfriend. She ignored me although I did say hi to her and the interesting dude with her, intro my-then-girlfriend to her and that guy.

The next thing was I received her sms scolding me upside down like before.......

Ah...she never changed.......

I wish her the best for her life though....

Originally Posted by JoyStick

sama sama brudder Hustler.

One word brudder. "RESPECT".

My ex who is now married once called me on my mobile and cried that she can't get along with her husband. Spent 2 hrs on the phone counselling her and that she should work together with her husband and learn to communicate and understand each other better. I told her that since they both ddecided to sign on the dotted line and devote their lives to each other, then they should learn to live with the partner they have chosen. I knew she still had feelings for me as I was her first love and she was mine, but I draw the line not to come between a married couple. I still love and care for her, but that has now progressed to another level. I just want to see her happy now. Least to say, my mobile phone bill for the month hit the roof. Phone counselling safer as there is a physical barrier and both parties can't make a mistake when emotions are high.

Marriage was never about happily ever after. It got romanticised along the way thanks to movies and novels and people get this misconception that it is. A marriage can be romanticised, but only by the couples within it to make that effort.

My ex knows that I've distanced myself from her and her feelings, but its okay, as she knows I mean well.

[yanki1]

wa lau. go geylang take a walk. so many guys wearing specs there.

[yanki1]

sometime its not easy to be husband and wife, staying together, cos a lot of things u dun get to see unless u are staying together. when staying together then the masks are removed and the real things surfaced.

[giggz83]

i ended a 3.5yrs relationship with my ex-gf.

*sigh* .. used to ask myself why? why? why? but .. not anymore.. kinda get over it.
untill recently saw her with a new bf. dammit.
the "TAN KAPT" come again.. FxxK!

anyway .. like this bro.. maybe i would see her getting married in a couple of years lata.. probably 2-3 yrs. feel sad.. what was once mine. then now?

damn.

mm .. bro out there, any possibility that one day .. we might re-concile? haha.. okok.. just asking. thanks!

[blade]

bro asdfghjkl, dug out an old thread again ar??quite surprised to see my nick inside this thread....wahahaha cos it juz seems so familiar till i read the date....

Originally Posted by giggz83

i ended a 3.5yrs relationship with my ex-gf.

*sigh* .. used to ask myself why? why? why? but .. not anymore.. kinda get over it.
untill recently saw her with a new bf. dammit.
the "TAN KAPT" come again.. FxxK!

anyway .. like this bro.. maybe i would see her getting married in a couple of years lata.. probably 2-3 yrs. feel sad.. what was once mine. then now?

bro giggz83, hey man i dunno how it feels n i hope i don have the chance to feel it too...but now i feel like getting another gf(have potential target in my opinion got chance la)...my current one have been with me for like nearly 3yrs?
don feel like losing her thou, she have been with me thru all kind of difficult times...but i juz feel like fooling ard ya..have always been a flirt la, like the process of getting close to a gal..but been always loyal to my gf...
haiz...kinda bastard ya?damn...but still wan the best of both worlds haha

[giggz83]

yo bro blade!

thanks dude..

since broken up .. i've find all sorts of activity.. haha.. those unhealthy ones.. ktv, health club, disco, clubbings .. everything la..

bonking and clubbing .. and more bonking and clubbing .. hahaha..

but .. sianz.. theres always an emptiness.. sometimes i just wonder how is she. but ... reality may not always be this case.

well, i hope for one day!

[daniel cee]

Originally Posted by wins1973

Sigh !!!!!

Saw my ex-gf got married last week. Was going downstair to wash by car and happen to see her wearing so nice and beautiful (red colour dress for her wedding dinner - i believe). By the way she is staying just opposite my block.

Feel really happy for her, and I can't forget the happy time we have before. i deflower her after we go steady for 1 month but unforunate 6 months later this guy snatch her away from me.

Was told by her that you prefer guy who wear spectacle - The reason look smart and decent.

Any brother, encounter before ???

Bro, wat will u do if happens that ur gf / wife finds out that u have s_x with those chicks...??