sex with partner/ spouse - how often?

[nellylol]

When dating timing...every meeting...

When married before kids, 5 to 6 times a week.

After kids came about, once in every few month...(dad bod)

Started Gym, cut down n lose weight, now wife want head from me every now n then...sex about 2 to 3 times a week.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Lucytoday

About twice a week on the weekends cause we havent gotten a house yet.

Then how abt weekdays sis ??...so long didn't do it n u r left high n dry ...can tahan till the weekends meh ??

[loki1688]

Originally Posted by Rickey

glad u agree bro lloki1688 ....chemistry is the thing tat is necessary n essential in all kinds of relationships for 2 parties to click n thrive...i.e. common interest n liking for the same thing in life ...heard of the proverb ...birds of a feather flocks tgt ???

Ok hope to see u there at the ladies jogging thread

will drop by to say Hi but that thread is so popular with all the Sis and Bros ITguy2008 and you.

Originally Posted by IamAStoryTeller

thats a very honest answer haha

and after a few months of sexless weekend, finally on Sunday wife have sex with me. that's the first in Aug, none in July, cannot remember have or not in June. lol jia lat

can try to spice things up in the bedroom, have some wine and chocolates, buy her some sexy lingerie from VS or LaSenza, no right minded lady would say no to that.

Originally Posted by nellylol

When dating timing...every meeting...

When married before kids, 5 to 6 times a week.

After kids came about, once in every few month...(dad bod)

Started Gym, cut down n lose weight, now wife want head from me every now n then...sex about 2 to 3 times a week.

ya keeping fit is important and attractive to the opposite sex, it would also increases your stamina for sex too.

[IamAStoryTeller]

she now breast feeding, no alcohol, and she got a lot of lingerie from me liao haha now also don't want to wear because scare infection

[blu3fin]

Originally Posted by entering

Wife and I used to fuck every day and she was pregnant 6 times. But twice pregnancy was unsuccessful, once my 4th daughter passed away.

So after that i got posted to Indonesia for 3 years and then Cambodia for 2 years we never had sex anymore. It just started from the death of my daughter then naturally we just stopped.

I think she knows that I'm eating outside but she also never say cuz she knows I like to fuck A LOT.

these days also cut down already. Not like those 3 a day cuz now want to make some money before retirement.

Another bro sarcastically reply me on another thread say he pity my wife. But truth is I always tell her I love her and hug her etc etc etc. But she always reject. I also don't want to force her.

My condolences bro... losing a kid is tough.
Maybe ur wifey can't get over it. Why not you go get vasectomy.. perhaps wifey will change her mind ?

[loki1688]

Originally Posted by IamAStoryTeller

she now breast feeding, no alcohol, and she got a lot of lingerie from me liao haha now also don't want to wear because scare infection

if she recently gave birth then maybe worried about pain down there, therefore less keen on sex, slowly warm her up, praise her body and looks, women esp spouses always like to be pleased and feel loved. all the best bro and wish you many many more sessions to cum!

[Lucytoday]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Then how abt weekdays sis ??...so long didn't do it n u r left high n dry ...can tahan till the weekends meh ??

Weekday DIY lor. I have toys 🤭

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Lucytoday

Weekday DIY lor. I have toys 🤭

Thanks for the clarification sis ...good tat u hv toys to turn to, to DIY when u r horny n hv the urge but he is not around

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by loki1688

will drop by to say Hi but that thread is so popular with all the Sis and Bros ITguy2008 and you.

Don't worry...all r welcome there to chat ...the more the merrier

[alea]

Originally Posted by IamAStoryTeller

she now breast feeding, no alcohol, and she got a lot of lingerie from me liao haha now also don't want to wear because scare infection

Can totally identify with the lingerie part. My wife also has lots of lingerie from me that she asks me not to buy anymore. She says lingerie cannot be considered as gifts for her because I’m the one who ultimately benefit from them.

[IamAStoryTeller]

Originally Posted by alea

Can totally identify with the lingerie part. My wife also has lots of lingerie from me that she asks me not to buy anymore. She says lingerie cannot be considered as gifts for her because I’m the one who ultimately benefit from them.

sad but true lol but she enjoys wearing them while having sex..pre-pregnancy la

now..haiz..can see her naked i happy liao haha

[Shadow_warrior]

mix it up with cosplay and sex toys

sometimes might get rejected, slowly propose and find opportunities to introduce them

watched my FB enjoy the "Gatita" bullet that day in hotel, and she was so high she wanted me inside, I refused, and asked her to suck me first while she used the vibrator, can feel her need through her hungry mouth

[georgie1994]

with wife once 2 weeks, if with sugarbook babies, one every week

[georgie1994]

Originally Posted by Lucytoday

Weekday DIY lor. I have toys 🤭

sometimes DIY also can have fun

[georgie1994]

Originally Posted by nellylol

When dating timing...every meeting...

When married before kids, 5 to 6 times a week.

After kids came about, once in every few month...(dad bod)

Started Gym, cut down n lose weight, now wife want head from me every now n then...sex about 2 to 3 times a week.

when single when young time, really energetic