Inviting ML Home

[DarkPandaPrince]

Previously, I knew a Vietnamese ML from a joint. She has left and is waiting to start her new massage job at a new location.

I suggested that she could come my house to massage me. She seem open to the idea.

1) How much would you suggest that I should pay her for her service? Is there a market rate?

2) Is it a better idea to go hotel as compared to my house? I live alone.

Any bros got any tips and past experience to share?

Thank you.

[Laopizhui]

I did invite one ml but she refuse to take my money. But i did read some bros state that payment shd be 2x or 3x per hourly rate. Special rate u shd stick to market rate.

[HDCore]

Its never a good idea to let people know more than necessary about yourself, such as where you live or if living alone.
It is just being cautious.

Spending money on a hotel room can be seen as an insurance against future complications.

Even if your ml is not the crazy type, does not mean she don't have friends that aren't.
A small misunderstanding can just snowball.

[blueskys]

Did this a number of times. You can probably get away with $150 + grab fees. Depends on the ML, some go all in for that rate, some only happy.

[fxty1989]

Ya, I guess you can invite ML to your home. But the deal needs to be made straightly before she come, since it’s not just massage we are talking about here. There is a potential risk here if any conflict taken place if the deal was not clear and straight.

[HairyHairyBalls]

Don't play with fire.
The cons severely outweighs the pros.

[mogibecrod]

Originally Posted by HDCore

Its never a good idea to let people know more than necessary about yourself, such as where you live or if living alone.
It is just being cautious.

Spending money on a hotel room can be seen as an insurance against future complications.

Even if your ml is not the crazy type, does not mean she don't have friends that aren't.
A small misunderstanding can just snowball.

Same feeling. Best is go hotel

[singmarine]

I can understand where you coming from.

Pros:
1) Save hotel room costs (Can save the money for another bonk )
2) No hassle need to book. (Paiseh need to show ICs. answer qns at the check in, eyes staring at you)

Cons:
1) Dirty your home
2) Possible invite trouble coz you dunno whether the ML is the sticky type. (Please note that ML are not stupid. They normally record where they went.)

[DarkPandaPrince]

Originally Posted by Laopizhui

I did invite one ml but she refuse to take my money. But i did read some bros state that payment shd be 2x or 3x per hourly rate. Special rate u shd stick to market rate.

I see. She only did HJ in the shop. But I am hoping for some FREE upgrade. Haha. Anyway, thanks for your input.

[DarkPandaPrince]

@HDCore @HairyHairyBalls @mogibecrod:

Thanks for all feedback about bringing the ML back home. I do have similar concern about privacy and whether it is "safe". And it is great to know that I am not alone.

[DarkPandaPrince]

Originally Posted by blueskys

Did this a number of times. You can probably get away with $150 + grab fees. Depends on the ML, some go all in for that rate, some only happy.

Do you discuss about the price and ask about the type of service before inviting them over? Any cases of ML asking for more?

[DarkPandaPrince]

Originally Posted by fxty1989

Ya, I guess you can invite ML to your home. But the deal needs to be made straightly before she come, since it’s not just massage we are talking about here. There is a potential risk here if any conflict taken place if the deal was not clear and straight.

Have you invite ML to home or hotel? Any personal experience to share?

[DarkPandaPrince]

Originally Posted by singmarine

I can understand where you coming from.

Pros:
1) Save hotel room costs (Can save the money for another bonk )
2) No hassle need to book. (Paiseh need to show ICs. answer qns at the check in, eyes staring at you)

Cons:
1) Dirty your home
2) Possible invite trouble coz you dunno whether the ML is the sticky type. (Please note that ML are not stupid. They normally record where they went.)

Yes, I also think that saving hotel fees is a plus.

The ML looks like a clean person. But I do agree about the trouble part.

[blueskys]

Originally Posted by DarkPandaPrince

Do you discuss about the price and ask about the type of service before inviting them over? Any cases of ML asking for more?

I always ask for rates beforehand, and never had any issues once they are over.

[fxty1989]

Originally Posted by DarkPandaPrince

Have you invite ML to home or hotel? Any personal experience to share?

Use to do such things when hanging out with friends to KTV or bar. The thing is if you want to invite ML out, make sure confirm all the details with them before the deal was made, not just the price, also include the duration of time, how many times, even the transportation. If such thing are not settled in front, later sure they will show patterns and take advantage from you. And one more thing, most of time, I will only choose the gal who is going to leave SG soon. it’s easier to negotiate price with them, also easier yo get rid of them if anything goes wrong.