Commercial Sex – Some of my thoughts and reflections

[Taisho75]

Let me share some of my thoughts with you all.

After cheonging for so many years and bonking FL, massage girls(locals to foreigners) etc, nothing beats the feeling of having a GF or wife. These "service" girls are out to earn your money, even if they give you GF feeling or good service, they want you to return to them so that they can earn more of your money. Think about the hardearn money, you take to earn in 2 days, gone in just 1hr of shiokness. Is it worth it?

However you still need to find them occassionally as there will be times when your partner cannot do it or when you are looking for varieties to satisfied your needs.

All in all it depends on different people take in these. If there is no demand, there won't be such places around for so many years already.

Happy cheonging to those who just started.

[SpankMeEasy]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

I like to share some of my thoughts too...

I am considered relatively old to the cheonging scene. Till now, the number of girls I’ve bonked – uncountable by fingers of both hands plus toes of 3 legs, and probably more than the number of all my cock hair.

Basically, after all these commercial sex, I found myself spending more time in SBF than actually going out to bonk....

Anyone guess what's my point?
There's also a lesson for TS to learn.

Ummm...I bonk so that I can write a FR.

I bonk to write, I don't write to bonk

Writing can fill up a little of that emptiness

Actually I feel a lot less empty these days after a commercial bang than before. Don't know exactly why. Maybe I'm not so confused between the two. Or over-expecting. Probably both.

[theOtherLife]

Bros, I just had my first commercial bonk, i totally agree the anticipation is the best part.

After release, I felt a sadness and emptiness. Sadness for the girl and emptiness for myself. I wonder if any of you all feel the same way.

When I replay the whole session in my mind. It wasn't the blowing of my load that i remember, in fact I keep imagining what the girl must have been feeling and what actually drove her to do what she does. Very sad. I keep thinking they
also want to find a nice person, settle down and all the other dreams. Think I too emo for commercial bonk manz. Anyone felt or feels the same?

Sorry if I sound wimpy, but I need to get this off my chest.

[TheSeeker]

Commercial Sex, it's more of an impulse, for me.. The need to release, to try out different things with different girls..

I've got my fair share of escorts, paid companionship, WLs, FLs etc but it all amounts to having lost faith in relationships..

When I was younger, I would never have imagined myself going for commercial sex.. Yet retrospectively, it's more viable paying for my needs rather than investing part of my life, finances and emotions in a relationship I can never be sure of..

Just blabbering..

[TheSeeker]

Originally Posted by theOtherLife

Bros, I just had my first commercial bonk, i totally agree the anticipation is the best part.

After release, I felt a sadness and emptiness. Sadness for the girl and emptiness for myself. I wonder if any of you all feel the same way.

When I replay the whole session in my mind. It wasn't the blowing of my load that i remember, in fact I keep imagining what the girl must have been feeling and what actually drove her to do what she does. Very sad. I keep thinking they
also want to find a nice person, settle down and all the other dreams. Think I too emo for commercial bonk manz. Anyone felt or feels the same?

Sorry if I sound wimpy, but I need to get this off my chest.

It's quite normal to feel this way.. I used to when I first engaged a girl for companionship..

A few more times later and it's all gone.. No worries..

[Shocking_vibes]

Originally Posted by TheSeeker

It's quite normal to feel this way.. I used to when I first engaged a girl for companionship..

A few more times later and it's all gone.. No worries..

I think it sort of goes in a cycle. There's a bro whom wrote in one of these threads about what he feels after bonking a certain number of girls. Let's say from 0-5 he only cares about sexual aspect. 5-10 he knows the gals are cheating him, 10-15 he falls in love with them, 15-20 he gets cheated and gets hardened and then the cycle repeats.


I saw his post and it did make sense in some way. I have been chionging for a number of yrs and done with the relationship aspect but this yr this particular girl actually made me feel love sick. So that i'm willing to gather more info on her. Just this one gal this yr. The other gals i couldn't care about.


I guess somehow there's probably going to be one person out there that we can relate to.

[colins]

Originally Posted by theOtherLife

Bros, I just had my first commercial bonk, i totally agree the anticipation is the best part.

After release, I felt a sadness and emptiness. Sadness for the girl and emptiness for myself. I wonder if any of you all feel the same way.

When I replay the whole session in my mind. It wasn't the blowing of my load that i remember, in fact I keep imagining what the girl must have been feeling and what actually drove her to do what she does. Very sad. I keep thinking they
also want to find a nice person, settle down and all the other dreams. Think I too emo for commercial bonk manz. Anyone felt or feels the same?

Sorry if I sound wimpy, but I need to get this off my chest.

And of cos, feeling that how she need to serve you to get your money, and how you have allowed your sex drive to overwhelm what you would have dearly kept to define your sense of morality.

But what bro seeker said is right in a way. If you continue, you will one day find a girl who will tell you its alright to take her body for a price and that she will desire it and continue to desire you for her pleasure. Then if you believe her, your 'sense of morality' will be gone, justified and overcome. That is the tipping point for which commercial sex becomes a path of no return.

I dun think you are wimpy. A man is one who faces his fear. Many of us would have overcome this ourselves by disregarding it. Fact is we also fear it. We fear to answer questions like, will commercial sex affects the sense of morality for ME?, am I contributing to the big scheme of things which I have perceived to be contemptuous?, have I changed so much to accept such actions that I have decided not to committed?

As you can see, all such questions address your inner self. Your answers will provide you with a new perspective which you will start to view yourself. If you view yourself then to be a person who has no qualms in taking a person for carnal relief, albeit at a price, then you have accepted yourself that you want to pay for sex. There is no good or bad, today's society do not judge morality already, what matters are money and power.

Hope this helps.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by turbo_slk200

This sounds like a familiar vicious cycle .....
Gian to Quickie to KC to Stay Away...... after a while... the cycle will repeat itself over and over again !

Is really the darkside !

Totally agreed! Old man like me have gone through more than one full cycle already. Positve -> Zero -> Negative -> Zero.... if you do not stop here, the cycle will repeat itself. The difference between people is "How long it or how many girls one takes to complete one cycle.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by theOtherLife

Ain fact I keep imagining what the girl must have been feeling and what actually drove her to do what she does. Very sad. I keep thinking they
also want to find a nice person, settle down and all the other dreams. T

You don't have to feel sorry for the girl. The majority are greedy, lazy good for nothings.

Very few are forced into prostitution. Spreading their legs for money is a personal choice most make simply because it's one of the easiest ways for a female to make lots of money in a short period of time.

The girl probably didn't enjoy getting fucked by you but she sure has hell got a huge kick out of helping herself to a nice portion of your hard earned money after the deed.

[Shocking_vibes]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Totally agreed! Old man like me have gone through more than one full cycle already. Positve -> Zero -> Negative -> Zero.... if you do not stop here, the cycle will repeat itself. The difference between people is "How long it or how many girls one takes to complete one cycle.

Therefore it's true that there's probably at least one fl/wl etc out there that can kc the bros correct?

Even if the bro has lots of experience she can still do it to him and then the cycle continues like his heart's broken afterwards and he becomes hardened if he continues to chiong.

[groo]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

...only on the tip of the iceberg...pass the quickie sessions...get sick of it & look more more KC type comm fucks...welcome to the darkside!

Haha! Well said, bro DYBJ... It starts with a sense of wonderment and satiation of one's lust and curiousity. Soon, you'll find it meaningless just to bonk for bonk's sake, hence the feeling of emptiness after each session. That's when, as the cliche goes, you go looking for value in your bonks ... or what bro DYBJ said, KC-type commercial bonks!

Some girls are damn good at this KC game, hence why some girls are soooo popular with long waiting lists and dicks... Bwahahahahahahaha!!! Old birds will know how these FLs' games play out, and with discipline, will usually get more mileage and hence, value in their bonks.

However, once in a while, you'll come across a FL who can click with you. If it turns out ok, you get yourself a great FB. If not, all hell breaks loose!

So cheers, dun play play and tread carefully hor!

[groo]

Originally Posted by Cheonging101

The Cheongster's life is like a Sine Wave....Which goes like this:...0-5 girls -> Wah! Exciting! Must try!...
81-85 girls -> Better fuck and forget...fuck enough FLs/WLs that 2 hands + 2 legs also cannot count...

Bwahahahahahahahaha!!! Bro Cheonging101, you're just ingenious! Then it dawned on me why a cheongster's life is like a Sine Wave...

SINE WAVE: Sex Is Never Ending, We Are Very Energetic!!! Bwahahahahahahahahahaha!!!

I haven't Fxxx enough leh, although i've lost count...

[tan1688]

my thoughts:

even for wife/gf => need a lot of time to date, spend much money for
marriage, house, car etc before enter into this exclusive arrangement to
fuck them. of course this exclusive arrangement, you need to pay more,
like the concept of owning your own car and taking a taxi, own use
and many ppl can use.

for commercial sex, flings, ons, fb,etc => also need money to bonk them,
even at clubs buying drinks and all to set up the atmosphere, etc.

In the end i concluded, gals role in this world are meant to be fucked by guys. to bonk them through whatever way there is no escape, money
have to be involved.

Commercial sex or for own personal use to me is the amount of money
that you are willing to spend only if you could offer lots of
money any gal could be for your own personal use.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Shocking_vibes

Therefore it's true that there's probably at least one fl/wl etc out there that can kc the bros correct?

Even if the bro has lots of experience she can still do it to him and then the cycle continues like his heart's broken afterwards and he becomes hardened if he continues to chiong.

There is nothing about true or false, and I do not like to make this kind of sweeping statement.

If you are old and careful enough, you can stop the cycle from continuing. Being KC'ed by a FL requires a willing partner. Are you the willing one?

[Panda05]

Hi,
Just to add my 2 cents....

As what Bro Groo said.." Soon, you'll find it meaningless just to bonk for bonk's sake, ....., you go looking for value in your bonks ... or what bro DYBJ said, KC-type commercial bonks!...."

In the sea of KC'ing.. there are no winner or looser.. you win some.. you loose some.. lose, wise up.. then become complacency or met your match.. then lose again.. then wise-up.. then complacency again...etc etc etc..

What I enjoy is the process of the KC... and to me.. to enjoy the process, one has to immerse oneself in the role.. but with a sensible mind to pull out at anytime. Bonk with emotion / feeling for each other is much much more enjoyable.. worth every effort that you have put in.. (my POV).

So far (about 3-4 years), i have my fair share of success and failure.. but I thoroughly enjoyed it.. damn, it can be quite addictive.

Regards.