Sexual desire still strong but partner not. Solutions?

[simply2323]

Been married for many years but wife already menopause. Even prior to her expected female stage, the sexual desire in her have never been there. Extremely conservative and no desire to advance sexually.
Do visit KTV, massage, Geylang etc but can never able to re-live the romance that is associated with sex. Agreed with most samsters that it is better to "fuck and leave them" or "paid and avoid trouble". Nevertheless, without that certain emotional feeling, plus the necessary need of a condom, one can never really achieved the 99 or 100% sexual satisfaction even with a most beautiful whore or FL. Met a Fl once who fulfilled all but decided to call it off after few encounters as big head overcome the small head in logic.
Hence, is it only me or there are also many who feels that way? Is there a solution cos I don't think there is one.

[sammyboyfor]

Divorce your old wife and get a new younger wife.

[hugs]

Lol. U know the post above me is only teasing you right?

Jokes aside, can i suggest an option? Dont need to listen if this is not an option or not good advice

My suggestion is for you to seperate your emotion related to loving your wife, from emotion arousing from intercourse with other women. you can carry on a healthy sex life while keeping your family life in one piece. Just dont bring it back home and compare the emotions or feeling. Making tension for your big head and your small head. In the end, both heads are stressed. One is love. One is lust or healthy physical needs, since your wife will be stress if you insist she have sex at this stage. It is like hobbies. Just becos one partner enjoys playing golf while the other partner prefers to baking cakes. No need to force right, since both of you have come this far in building the marriage together.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by hugs

Lol. U know the post above me is only teasing you right?

Jokes aside, can i suggest an option? Dont need to listen if this is not an option or not good advice

Why make a simple problem so complicated???

When your car is old, rusty and no longer runs reliably what do you do?... you sell it or scrap it and get a new car.

Same applies with a wife. When she can no longer function properly and is old and grumpy and is post menopausal, the obvious solution is to get rid of her and replace her with young, hot, nubile sex machine.

Life is actually very simple. Humans being like to complicate matters unnecessarily.

[hugs]

I wont argue with you.Instead i will find something else to do. Like work. Can you believe it im working today till 12noon? Urgh singapore life!

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Why make a simple problem so complicated???

When your car is old, rusty and no longer runs reliably what do you do?... you sell it or scrap it and get a new car.

Same applies with a wife. When she can no longer function properly and is old and grumpy and is post menopausal, the obvious solution is to get rid of her and replace her with young, hot, nubile sex machine.

Life is actually very simple. Humans being like to complicate matters unnecessarily.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by hugs

I wont argue with you.Instead i will find something else to do. Like work. Can you believe it im working today till 12noon? Urgh singapore life!

Me too will not argue with Boss...also not sure when he is serious...

Poor you still need to work half day on Sat....

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Me too will not argue with Boss...also not sure when he is serious...

Poor you still need to work half day on Sat....

All I do is state the obvious minus the sugar coating.

Wife is old and is no longer interested in sex. The options are pretty straightforward because there is no way of winding back the clock to the good old days of wild, passionate sex.

1. Put up with her and remain faithful.
2. Put up with her and have flings behind her back.
3. Replace her with someone younger and hornier.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

All I do is state the obvious minus the sugar coating.

Wife is old and is no longer interested in sex. The options are pretty straightforward because there is no way of winding back the clock to the good old days of wild, passionate sex.

1. Put up with her and remain faithful.
2. Put up with her and have flings behind her back.
3. Replace her with someone younger and hornier.

In country where women charter protects the women not easy to divorce...may have to give up 80% if the judge deemed the wife is the victim of unreasonable divorce...also the children may have grown older and understood what is happening...so divorce may not be an easy option...

Just follow what hugs said...go have fling outside and dun bring the problem home...best go overseas and enjoy your self...you still in control of assets and money....

Tiger Woods divorce cost him USD 200 million...sure he can afford...but he is unable to explain to his 2 children why he dun stay with mummy...sooner or later he have to face these awkward questions with his 2 children...do you think he is happier now after divorce...

[hugs]

@Hurricane88, ohhh..u argue with boss..thought u said u wont argue with him? Muahaha im kidding it wasnt an argument at all lah, it was a sharing of opinion im just pulling your leg

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Wife is old and is no longer interested in sex. The options are pretty straightforward because there is no way of winding back the clock to the good old days of wild, passionate sex.

Sam, if in the revert way.We guy are old & no money.
Cannot perform in bed.
She might give us green hat & some more kick us out of the bed for not perform well in bed

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by ah rat

Sam, if in the revert way.We guy are old & no money.
Cannot perform in bed.
She might give us green hat & some more kick us out of the bed for not perform well in bed

I've already been kicked out of the bedroom for very poor performance. I was rated F - !! What to do? Life goes on.

[hugs]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I've already been kicked out of the bedroom for very poor performance. I was rated F - !! What to do? Life goes on.

Aww..look on bright side, u can now devote all your time to gardening. Your flower loves you

To ts : saw what happened to boss sam? Count your blessing that you are the healthy and sexually active one in marriage

[hugs]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Me too will not argue with Boss...also not sure when he is serious...

Poor you still need to work half day on Sat....

Yalor.. need sayanging

[hugs]

Originally Posted by ah rat

Sam, if in the revert way.We guy are old & no money.
Cannot perform in bed.
She might give us green hat & some more kick us out of the bed for not perform well in bed

Rat, lai. Where is your 6-pack photo you promised me?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by hugs

@Hurricane88, ohhh..u argue with boss..thought u said u wont argue with him? Muahaha im kidding it wasnt an argument at all lah, it was a sharing of opinion im just pulling your leg

dun argue with your Boss...kkkk....

Just a healthy discussion of facts...I hate those hot blooded ppl that hurl abuse and profanities the moment they lost a healthy discussion...